WOMEN WHO ARE ATTRACTED TO SENSITIVE GUYS
Women and sensitive guys
Yeah, there is no such thing. Only a temporary fluke. This is nothing but a myth supported either by the women who don’t realize what they truly want or, unsurprisingly, by the very sensitive men in question.
The idea that sensitivity, appeal to emotion and the empathetic attitude of a man are very attractive to a woman is false and dumb. This is because, biologically and psychologically speaking, a woman will easily get bored of such a “sensitive and emotional” man.
Why? Simple enough, because this attitude and personality don’t transmit the idea of safety, stability, protection. And these are the three elements that a woman will look for in a relationship with a man, among others. She wants to feel protected, safe from all dangers, that she can rely and depend on her partner.
Then, how can a woman depend on a so-called sensitive and empathetic man who appeals to emotion and pisses his eyes any time a problem appears? Or a man who can’t hold his own in confrontational and competitive situations?
Here’s a clue – she can’t. She doesn’t feel protected, safe, stable and, obviously, least of all attracted to such a man. This is because, historically, biologically, psychologically and, pretty much from any perspective, the woman is the sensitive and emotional one with an emotional response to a given situation.
The man, on the other hand, is the practical, rational one who seeks for a solution, imposes his will on reality, struggles and puts in the required effort to change the situation, to solve the problem. He protects his female partner, in essence.
The fact that there are exceptions to this rule doesn’t change the situation or the reality. That 99% of women look for a protective, dominative, and masculine man.
Manly, not feminine traits
Ironically speaking, a woman wants a man to have manly traits. It might come as a surprise but that’s how things go in reality. And the traits associated to manliness are: not sensitivity, not empathy, not fucking emotional openness.
Instead, a manly man has to be aggressive, competitive, dominative, with an iron will, a high self-esteem, someone who doesn’t bend to anyone’s whims. A manly and masculine man changes the world through action, not emotions.
Moreover, a masculine man emanates a very attractive air for all women who, most of the times, are sexually attracted to him. A woman will be much more attracted to a man who’s certain of himself, with an iron will, rather than to a weak, lifeless, cry-baby who’s anything else besides a man.
Realistically speaking, a woman saying that she’s attracted to a sensitive man more than she is to a masculine one, is lying to herself. Either she doesn’t realizes what she truly wants or she’s lying.
This is because the bio-psychological aspect of a woman has evolved across time in such a way that she prefers taking on a certain role – that of being provided for and protected by a man.
The same is true for men – over time, he has come to take on the figure of a protector, dominative and masculine, the one taking care and providing for his family, implicitly ensuring the safety of his woman.
Proof of the paradox – the consecutive failures of sensitive men
Why do most sensitive and emotional men who focus on empathy and appearing vulnerable have low success rates in love matters?
It’s simple enough to figure this out – because women don’t want an emotional and sensitive man. They aren’t looking for a partner who is just as vulnerable, sensitive, and emotional as they are. They don’t want a doormat who fulfills all their desires.
That’s not what gets them wet. And no, that’s not what drives their sexual appetite to rise through the roof. This begs another question. Why do sensitive guys have less sex that dominative, masculine men, generally speaking?
And, who would have thought, the same answer applies – because a woman, generally, will be much more aroused by a confident, virile, and dominative man.
She’ll be aroused and attracted to a man, not a pussy crybaby, in other words. What I’m saying here is that, when comparing an emotional and vulnerable man to a confident, masculine, and willful man, 99% of women will prefer the latter.
That’s just reality, not a figment of anyone’s imagination meant to lower the self-esteem of emotional men even more.
Masculinity and the authoritative attitude
If you want to fuck something, be manly, confident, build a strong and aggressive willpower. That’s right, aggressiveness and dominance are very attractive to a woman because this subconsciously indicates that such a man will be able to protect and provide for her, that he’s a fighter who doesn’t give up.
It might come as a surprise but a woman’s attraction towards aggressiveness and authority can take alarming shapes. In the sense that she can choose to be with a man even if he hits her.
Why is that? Because she simply likes it, that’s why. Now, I’m not saying that all women are like that but there is a certain underlying aspect in their psychology that equates aggressiveness and dominance with attractiveness, sexual appeal, and it makes them submissive in this way.
The social roles of men and women
All of us have surely heard about the utter stupidity and discriminatory aspect of attributing social and psychological roles to men and women. But is it really that stupid in the end?
Putting aside the few studies that prove the contrary, let’s simply look at the surrounding world, and take a few observations.
Most women are sensitive and emotional one way or another. They want to be protected, taken care of, provided for, submissive to their men, one way or another. Would they fulfill these roles if this isn’t what they wanted? No, they wouldn’t. What’s more, they are even happy being like this.
Furthermore, men have always been protectors, fighters, masculine individuals who take the lead in a relationship. Everyone is happy with these established roles, except the businesswomen out there who pretend they’re happy being alone.
