WHY WOMEN PREFER STRONG MEN
Nature dictates physical attraction
All evidence points out to one conclusion – women are naturally attracted to masculine men who emanate self-confidence. The kind of men who trust their own abilities and show self-discipline. In other words, it all revolves around the biological and psychological make-up, the result of many relationships until now, and the way men and women have interrelated for millennia.
Most of the times, men that have manifested traits specific to males were more attractive and tended to become the ideal partners for women. The fighter, the charismatic and convincing man, the one who keeps on struggling against all odds, these men become ideal in a woman’s perspective. Physical attraction and psychological incitement are only natural from that moment on.
An aggressive and dominative man will always become the spotlight of all womankind. This is what incites and arouses them the most. Their psyche unconsciously tells them that such a man will protect them and their children. This is where the truth actually lies. A woman will always have an unconscious desire ruling her – she wants to be protected and kept safe by her man. This is why she’s searching for a man who can deliver on those desires.
Once she finds him, she’ll become possessive and even jealous in some circumstances. She’ll do everything she can to keep her by her side. A woman is capable of too many things to take possession of her man and keep him there. As long as he falls into her standards, that is.
Weak and effeminate men lose the high-ground
It shouldn’t come as a surprise because, if we consider the fact that women love masculine men with a strong character, they’ll be appalled or distraught by weak and effeminate men. Logic dictates that the latter has much more to lose when it comes to romance and relationships. In 9 cases out of 10, the masculine man will get the girl.
This is because a weak man can’t impose his will or even take himself seriously. The best result he can get is making her laugh with some desperate jokes. What I’m saying here is that this kind of man represents a source of humor, an entertainment, rather than a potential romantic partner.
That is, unless he manages to become self-confident and masculine. In this case, his masculinity will shoot through the roof, and this will bring him a lot of success in romanticism. It depends on the kind of woman he meets, actually. Evidently, as long as he remains shy, embarrassed, and effeminate, he won’t be getting pussy any time soon. No one will take notice of him, and that’s the most annoying.
Beautiful women have always intimidated men, especially those who lack the courage to approach them normally. When they’re faced with an attractive woman, they become numb and they start mumbling like a retarded kid. However, this weak attitude won’t ever allow them to conquer the attention of a woman, least of all her appreciation. It won’t matter how good you are to her and how much you satisfy her desires. You’ll only be an enabler.
Learn to be masculine
All that’s left to do now that you know what the problem is would be to learn how to be more masculine. It sounds very simple, and it actually is, most of the times. Act like you’re a winner, like you’re perfectly aware of your own qualities and superiority. Don’t be vain or arrogant though. Simply be confident and disciplined. Master your own emotions and make rational decisions.
This will tell all women that you are a calm and reserved person, someone who can get things done. Someone who can deal with any situation, no matter how critical or tough. You need such a perception because masculinity doesn’t only revolve around aggressiveness and dominance. The traits of a masculine man are much more diverse and varied, so you need to assimilate as many as you can.
Think of what common traits the great men who changed history had. The men who fought for their ideals and had a resounding success in life. Those who changed the way we see things. If you manage to decrypt their secret of manliness, which is no secret to begin with, you too will have success with women.
Try to obtain tiny bits of knowledge from each of your inspirational sources. Don’t let anyone undermine your opinions and personality. Rather, struggle against oppression and discrimination, against derision and injustice. Your actions and rights are inviolable, and you have to impose your willpower. Be authoritarian, send out your own thoughts and protect them fiercely. Make sure you acknowledge and stand by your own ideas so that no one can make a fool of you. Most importantly, make sure your ideas are sound and correct. You wouldn’t want to support wrong facts.
In a relationship with a woman, don’t become submissive or weak. Don’t adapt to all of her wishes. That is, unless you want to prove to her that you’re as weak as a spineless coward, someone he can play around and control. She’ll know you have no way of fighting back, and that you’ll always come back no matter what she does. Don’t be so forgiving. This isn’t what masculinity represents. Instead, it reflects a weak character.
You need to impose your will, to be masculine and know when to support your arguments. That is what a true man is. A woman will be attracted to an alpha figure who manifests the characteristics of a fighter, of aggressiveness and self-esteem. No one will build you a statue just for helping everyone and being a good person. You don’t have to be friends with everyone because that’s not normal.
Men and women are different. They have different personalities and characters, different principles and different desires. It would be far-fetched to be friends with everyone. So, you don’t have to break your principles and become a spineless coward just to do that. This isn’t what women appreciate, not by a long-shot. Masculinity and strength of character, that’s what women appreciate.
