WHY DO MEN LOVE WOMEN
We love women because it’s natural
Us, men, we love women because that’s what our genetic code tells us to do. This is human nature, and this is why the two sexes exist. Each of us feels the need to have a partner, a woman to live alongside with, with whom to share life. Indeed, we don’t focus entirely on a woman but she is an integral factor to our happiness.
More importantly, we love women who behave in a feminine way, women with womanly traits who respect the social expectations. A man will always appreciate a feminine and attractive woman who dresses womanly, rather than a businesswoman aspiring toward male competitiveness. This type of woman won’t be too appreciated by a man, and she won’t be too happy as a consequence.
A woman doesn’t have to do much to attract the attention of almost any man in her proximity. Masculinity and femininity attract each other naturally. In other words, men love women who accept their femininity and use it to their advantage, and women appreciate masculine and self-confident men.
Happiness in emotional fulfillment
No one says men are emotionless robots who only function on reason. We all seek happiness and emotional fulfillment, and in this equation, a woman plays the most important part. We appreciate and love their presence in our lives, the role they play, and the things they bring with them. Again, the attraction between men and women is genetic, unconscious and unstoppable.
You can’t help from being attracted to a beautiful woman. Beauty is one of the vital tools of a woman’s repertoire, the main reason why a man will find her attractive. At the same time, she’ll feel the need to emphasize her aesthetic superiority, to demonstrate her beauty and attractiveness in society.
Just as a man will showcase his masculinity, the strong mental fortitude, and self-confidence. Looking back in time, men always loved strong men who could protect them and their children from potential dangers. This rudimentary mentality is still active in most women today. The reason why women feel attracted to masculine men has the same unconscious character as the reason why men love beautiful women.
The prospect of a family
One of the only paths to happiness for a man is establishing a family. Besides the professional or personal achievements, a family is the most important accomplishment in a man’s life. And it all starts with a woman in a normal relationship. She is the reason why a relationship moves to the next level – children. A complete family is established by a man, a woman, and one or more children.
Although we, men, go through the so-called all-rebelling period where we aspire to great things, conquering the world and such, it comes a time when family becomes indispensable. That’s where true happiness resides, the warm touch of a woman, and seeing your kids grow up. Family becomes one of the main reasons why we persevere in our ambitions.
And for this, a man won’t ask for much from a woman. All he wants is love, appreciation, understanding, and the warm femininity that only a woman can project. Just as a man can reach the peaks of happiness by establishing a family, women feel this need even more stringently. The studies have shown that most women are happier having children and being at home, rather than doing business.
The things men want from a woman
Culturally and historically speaking, men would take the initiative, and bring changes to the world, good or bad. This is why a man doesn’t necessarily want a strong, intelligent or professionally endowed woman. The truth is, no one expects a woman to bear the same social or professional pressure that men sustain. No man wants to be provided for by his woman because it’s abnormal.
Throughout history, it was normal for a man to provide for his family, to fight against life’s injustices and protect his partner as much as possible. Us, men, we have accepted these responsibilities just as women have accepted their social roles. Being more emotional, sensitive, and weak, women have always emphasized the family-life.
So, a man will never seek a woman who’s more of a man than he is. A woman needs to be feminine, emotional, optimistic, and to conform to normalcy. Only such a woman will be appreciated by most men. Only a feminine woman earns our love and wakes up the desire to establish a family.
Femininity complements masculinity
Men love women for no other reason than because it is normal and natural. Because the genetics of each gender has clear instructions on sexual attractiveness. Men are attracted to women, and women to men. Obviously, there are exceptions to the rule in the form of homosexuality but that’s only a minority.
All men wants to love and be loved by their ideal woman, to live alongside her, and to establish a family with her. At a given time, few things are more important than family for a man. However, a woman plays an essential role in a man’s life, and the other way around is true as well. Masculinity belongs to men, for genetic, social, and cultural reasons, and femininity belongs to women, for the same reasons.
You can’t have feminine men and masculine woman who demand they be looked upon as normal, who want to entertain normal relationships with other people. No woman will be truly attracted to an emotional wreck of a man who can’t even decide for himself. Just as how most men won’t or can’t love a rebellious woman that will eclipse their own masculinity and strength of character. Everything happens according to unwritten rules that each gender accepts. This is an unconscious process that works from the oldest times.
All you have to do is follow the rules, and accept your own social role. Men have to be masculine, strong, courageous, and compelling, while women should be feminine, emotional, and the reason why men decide to establish families.
