WHAT IS A FUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP
Existing problems in today’s relationships
Before defining a functional relationship, we should first understand what a dysfunctional relationship entails. To do that, we have plenty of examples of actual relationships that don’t work as they should. One of the reasons is the incompatibility between partners, be it socio-cultural or intellectual. If you’re aiming for functionality and peaceful relationships, then the partners should interact on the same wavelengths. Or, at least, the inferior partner should follow in the footsteps of the other one. This type of mutual understanding represents one of the main pillars of a functional relationship.
Another reason for the appearance of bad relationship is the low moral education of the partners. Actually, for a relationship to last and be successful, the partners need to understand one another and each other’s roles perfectly. Neither one of them can become violent or a barbarian because that would automatically lead to a break-up. Likewise, the lack of understanding and consensual communication means that the relationship is a dysfunctional one. Indeed, it is doomed to wither and die. Most times, the basis of a relationship lies with the man, because he establishes the consistency of a relationship.
However, the woman has her predefined role in a relationship, and if she’s unreasonable, then the relationship can just go fuck itself. How would it be if your woman constantly argued about insignificant stuff and never shut up? Moreover, she’s not doing anything to solve the problems in the relationship. The differences in personality and education become evident in this case. If the relationship becomes muddled in conflicts because of the lack of compatibility, you can’t do anything. There are other women more fitting for a relationship with you, most likely.
How do women influence relationships?
Your woman can make or break a relationship. When it comes to romance, your woman plays an essential role in constructing the familial attachment in a relationship. She brings all the feelings and emotions to a new level between you two. If your woman is unreasonable, a cunt, or she refuses to play her part in a relationship, then you should know that the relationship is a failure. So long as the man is self-assumed, responsible, understanding, and communicative, the woman should provide the same things or get the fuck out.
She needs to exert approximately the same traits, at least when it comes to communication and reasonableness. Worst case scenario – a woman should simply follow in the man’s footsteps and be obedient. Depending on her character and ability to communicate, a woman can be obedient or conflicting. If you’ve got a conflicting woman that just can’t shut up about the smallest details, you’d better do something about it before it’s too late. Your relationship will quickly grow sour if you don’t fix this problem.
I shouldn’t tell you why it’s a bad idea to have a cunt yapping in your ears all the time. She’s only good at creating senseless conflicts and muddying the pool with her emotional responses, right? The ideal relationship starts from each partner’s ability to reach a compromise. A relationship without compromises is a dysfunctional relationship. That’s because the incompatibilities between partners aren’t going to fix themselves. All people are different, so in order to understand one another and live together, they each have to compromise small things.
The principles behind a successful relationship
Up until now, we’ve looked at what makes a failed relationship. Now, we’re going to take a look at the principles behind ideal relationships:
- Efficient communication
- Mutual understanding
- Compromises on both sides
- A reasonable attitude when it comes to conflicts
- Common life goals
- Accepting one’s social role
- Assuming one’s responsibility
- Avoiding laziness
By efficient communication and mutual understanding, I’m referring to the reasonable attitude of both partners. Neither becomes violent or straight-up retarded when a contradictory situation occurs. That is, if the contradiction isn’t moronic in itself. The compromises that each person does in a relationship should be minor, if the incompatibilities are minor. If their personalities are wildly different, then the compromises they must make are greater as well. Common life goals become essential in this sense.
If the partners work together hoping to achieve some common goal, then the relationship is a successful one. However, this is also where social roles come into play. Each partner has to accept these social roles. Usually, the man is the main income bringer in a household. The woman should take care of the household but it doesn’t mean she can’t contribute to the income. Moreover, the woman has an emotional and supportive role in a relationship. In fact, we can say that the woman gives the relationship meaning, bringing joy and emotions into it. Without her, the relationship would be bland.
The core element of any relationship
If we’ve started from the idea that any relationship should be based around men as leaders, then a precondition is necessary. The man has to be serious, reasonable, understanding, self-assumed, and responsible. Alternatively, if he becomes craven, lazy, and disinterested in the relationship, then no woman should stay with him. In fact, any woman should leave that man whenever this transformation occurs. If he’s an emotional or professional loser, you should avoid him as much as possible.
However, if a man has almost all the necessary traits to lead a relationship to its success, the woman should obey him. Not because social roles dictate this but because a man usually handles life better. Generally, he is more rational and logical than any exponent of the feminine grace. Women perceive the world from an emotional lens. Their own emotions can blind them when making decisions.
The end-result goes to hell alongside all their emotional and feelings-based approach. This approach never leads to anything favorable because it’s based on gut instincts and emotions. On the other hand, men are more pragmatic and rational. They can make much better decisions using the same framework and information. That’s why an ideal relationship should be centered on men, and not women. Successful relationships rely on mutual efforts, though.
