WHAT DOES HAPPINESS MEAN TO A MAN
Freedom in a relationship
We’re going strong with one of the essential aspects of any relationship between men and women. We’ve talked enough about women, so it was high time we said something about us, men. What makes us happy in a relationship? Well, first off, we want to be free to think or do anything we want. We want to do what we want, when we want, without anyone imposing limits on us. Because we don’t being limited.
What I means is that we don’t want being annoyed for all the little things we decide to do. Or to be verbally hammered by a woman because we forgot one small thing. If we want to do something, we’re going to do it because we have a reason for it, and we’d prefer if you followed suit. It doesn’t mean we don’t accept communication or discussion, only the conflicting and pointless one. We don’t particularly enjoy that type of discussion, and we’d rather you didn’t use it.
If we reached a decision, we most probably used facts and reason to find out if this is a good decision or not. In other words, we’ve reasoned things out, and we’re pretty sure it’s the correct decision to make. Therefore, you have no reason to doubt its accuracy because we’ve already done the groundwork. If you have constructive suggestions or a reasonable opinion, then we can’t wait to hear them.
Peace and quiet
Few things are as important to a man than the peace and quiet of his own home. He wants to feel comfortable and relaxed in his own home. However, this equilibrium goes to shit the moment a woman starts pestering him and causing a ruckus about something insignificant. Once you, as a woman, use this approach, the peace and quiet are gone, the comfort is ripped apart, and so is your man’s enthusiasm. Clearly, we’ll become annoyed and angry when you do that.
A conflicting relationship where a woman constantly argues for arguments’ sake is a toxic relationship. No man would want to become a part of that. So, here’s an advice of any woman planning to enter a relationship – don’t pester your partner needlessly, and stop moralizing. It’s enough to be straightforward and say what you want to say instead of yammering the same thing over again.
Men want to relax and find comfort when they get home from work. This is even truer when they work from home. In this case, they aren’t making a clear transition from work to relaxation in the first place. The last thing your man needs is you throwing courtesy out the window and pestering him. What do you think happens then? Eventually, he’ll become tired of this, and he’s going to demand some explanations. Wouldn’t it be better if things don’t get to this level?
Maintaining a hobby
To keep himself sane, a man needs a hobby that takes time away from his work or his relationship with you. It’s just an activity that makes him happy, which he does with pleasure, knowing that he eliminates stress this way. It makes no sense that you deny him that pleasure, even if you don’t like it.
As men, we need our free time when we just want to be alone. We just want to enjoy our free time, to relax for the moment, and enjoy our hobbies. So, if you’re planning on disturbing us with something insignificant or start pestering us, you’re damn sure we won’t react nicely. Don’t take those moments away from us because they’re scarce as it is. Just as we don’t deny you the pleasures of shopping, for instance.
Some men would watch a movie or a TV series, others play video games, while others work around the house. We have many interests which we love maintaining, and we don’t care if you don’t share our enthusiasm. It’s our spare time, and we’ll make of it what we want. Preferably, we want to deal with our own hobbies without being annoyed constantly. The little things are very important to finding true happiness.
A reasonable and understanding attitude
No matter how ideal the situation or how happy the man, a woman can ruin that in half a second. If you’re the type of woman who’s actively looking for conflict, noisy, and unreasonable, we don’t want you in our life. We don’t have the time for all this disorder, chaos, and noisiness in our lives, so we’d prefer you stayed as far away from us as possible.
As a woman, you should hold yourself as a paragon for compassion, sensitivity, sentimentalism, and affection. You should use your emotions constructively, to be good, understanding, loving, affectionate, and tender. This is feminine nature, and this is how we’d like you to behave. A woman’s personality takes a relationship on the brink of perfection or the tip of the abyss. A relationship can be perfectly stable and heading toward the future or it can be ruined by a woman’s attitude.
No man is perfect, and we make our own mistakes or upset you from time to time. But, most of the times, we realize this because we love and care about you. If we didn’t love you, then we wouldn’t be together, don’t you think so? So maybe you should be understanding when see where we’re coming from when we’ll say something you find upsetting.
Moreover, it would be unreasonable to be just as masculine and aggressive as a man. Your femininity is incompatible with those character traits, and they wouldn’t look good on you. What’s more, it would lead to pointless conflicts because a relationship where both partners are aggressive, volcanic, and conflicting, will rapidly go down the drain. The lack of stability leads to ruination.
This is why you, as a woman, should try to reason things out and see why we’re doing what we’re doing. We accept calm discussion and reasonable conversations because they often lead to uncovering mistakes. However, don’t get overly emotional or irrational because that’s not how we’re dealing with things.
