TO DOMINATE OR TO BE DOMINATED?
How did it all began?
How else but with a man and a woman who just wanted to spice things up in their sex lives? The concepts of “dominator” and “dominated” have existed since forever, practically. It’s something completely normal, after all. Either you want to be aggressive and start smacking her while you enthusiastically pull her by the hair, or you’ve got an erection simply by watching her take control, it’s all good. You don’t necessarily have to behave in a certain way to satisfy her. Just do your thing and I guarantee you that she’ll have the best fuck in her entire life!
We may be in the 21st century, the age of technology, of superior moral standards, and that bestial sex just goes below our dignity, but the truth is simple. Man is a sexual animal, amongst other things. What does this mean? Easy! It means that it’s perfectly normal for you to want to want to ram your cock into as many wet pussies as possible, and even more, get better at it. Porn movies, for example, are the perfect opportunity for some fresh ideas, even though they kill your testosterone and turn you into a little sensitive bitch. So, we’re talking about two main concepts here:
- The sadist, who gets himself off to the pain of his partner. Brutal behavior, animal instincts, no inhibitions and shyness. Let me give you an example. Let’s say that you’re boning your wife, like any respectable man would. What does a dominator do? He takes control, correct. He takes his woman, throws her onto the bed, he rips her clothes apart, rams her head into a pillow, and then ferociously starts tearing that sweet pussy apart.
- The masochist, the equivalent of the dominated person. This woman likes to be aggressed, to be tied down and immobilized, to be stripped of any freedom to fight back. In other words, she likes to be fucked pro bono, without doing much, just enjoying the wild ride.
How can you spot a dominator?
By observing his behavior and the way he acts, of course. How else? Seriously now, you just lead her into the bedroom. If she’s a dominator, believe you me, you’re going to know that right away. You don’t need two Master Degrees and a PhD in psychology to realize that your woman is into that shit. She won’t be asking you about your favorite positions or how fast you release your load, she will get down to business, literally or not.
What does this mean? That she likes being in control. It’s not you doing the fucking, it’s her. Now, I know you’re big, bad boy and you feel insulted that your woman is fucking you instead of the other way around. But it’s not like you have to be totally dominated. She wouldn’t want that either. Let her do her thing for a while. Then, change places and take her by surprise, taking away all her escape routes.
Without further ado, the dominator will always want to be on top or in a position of control. She’ll be the one moving around, not you. You’ve got nothing else to do other than enjoy the good fuck and that divine pussy. For the moment, you’ve just been stripped away of your reproductive organ. It’s her cock and she can use it however she wants, got it?
How do you know you’re being sexually manipulated?
It’s high time I address the ladies now. Usually, men will always lead, or they should, if they aren’t some little bitches. They should grab a hold of your fine ass and fuck your brains out until you start begging for more cock. This is, of course, done in a dignified and respectful way. We aren’t some primitive troglodytes, after all.
So, pay attention, ladies! As a man, it’s pretty easy to take the lead because of our physical superiority, and you, as a woman, should let yourself be toyed around with, pretty much. When you notice that you’ve lost control and that he’s moving you around like a piece of succulent meat, that’s a pretty strong sign you’re his plaything. He wants to fuck you, and he’s not going to ask for permission. If he wants to shove his cock down your throat, to see you choke on it with bulging eyes, well you can better be damn sure he’s not going to hesitate.
The dominator mainly thinks about his own satisfaction, and he does everything he can to unleash his load on your face or in your cunt. As long as he empties his balls and he feels good, he’s going to make full use of your body. It’s not that bad, actually, because you don’t really have to do anything, as a woman. Just let him have his fun and you just enjoy that tasty cock. What more could you want? From time to time, you can even change places and mount him, take control, so that you get to satisfy your darkest and kinkiest fetishes.
Is it good or bad?
It depends on what we’re talking about. The fuck is good, obviously. But if the dominated one feels that she’s become a plaything and she feels mocked, then Houston, we have some problems. If you don’t like to be brutally fucked, molested, and ravaged, then you would better avoid a dominator. You must know yourself well before taking this decision. What your preferences are, what you like and don’t like to do, how resistant you are to aggressive techniques. If you’re a pansy who’s more likely to start crying out of fear at the sight of a lightning bolt, then you’re going to get fucked up psychologically after such an experience.
Moving on, after a wild ride with a dominator, most of us would probably say that it was one of the most terrific and enjoyable experiences ever. Of course you bloody want more, how could you not?
You have a certain sense of pleasure and inner accomplishment when you see your woman fondling your balls and sucking your cock like a lollipop, mounting it, and riding it with reckless abandon. To see her coming up with increasingly perverted and lascivious ideas, each more exciting than the last, now that’s what I’m talking about.
There’s nothing more to be said. If you’re open to this sort of thing and you don’t scare easily, then being dominated will be fucking splendid. Your pussy will get drenched in a split-second at the thought of the great fuck that’s waiting for you at home, when he’s going to put his hand in your panties and stick his fingers in that moist cunt. And for men, who are obsessively thinking about sex anyway, it will be a truly blood-curdling experience. Your dick will pulsate crazily at the sight of that sex-crazed maniac eyeing you and gulping in anticipation.
