THE THRESHOLD OF VIRGINITY
Escaping from the exile of virginity
Virginity isn’t something negative in and of itself, but a simple threshold in life. Once you’re no longer a virgin, you become normal. You become a man from a boy, a woman from a girl, and you’ll be seeing things differently. It’s a simple step that, once you take, you’ll never get back. So, it’s a good idea to take it once you’re completely sure you want to take it.
Moreover, you need to be entirely confident in the person you’re doing it with. I don’t think you’d like for it all to end with a few kids running around you in a few years, right? Losing your virginity is an important step in life, but it’s also one that shouldn’t be taken so casually. If you’re not careful enough, you can ruin your life permanently. However, once you take this step, existence itself will take on a different meaning to you.
For instance, you obtain more experience with sex, as opposed to having none. If, at other times, you could only imagine what sex is like, now you’ll be living it. Later on, you can even call on professional escorts to satisfy your sexual needs. But that comes much later on, hopefully. Overcoming your virginity is the first step you’ll take in the world of adults. It’s not a definitory step, but it’s a necessary one. In other words, you can’t call yourself an adult if you’re still a virgin.
Social derision of virginity
Once you’re a virgin and everyone else around you isn’t, it feels as if the world is coming to an end. Alternatively, once you become a bona fide man and fuck your first woman, everything else tastes differently, sweeter even. But it’s not something you should be hasty with. You don’t have to have sex for the sake of having sex. Ideally, you should only make love to someone special.
But, well, an escort is a good choice as well, if you don’t have alternatives. As long as you’re not a virgin anymore, all is good in the world. You become more self-confident and you escape all the social derision associated with your virginity. If you’re no longer a virgin, they can’t laugh at you anymore, right? Wrong – they can still laugh at you for other reasons. That’s why I’m saying you shouldn’t dump your virginity simply because you’re being made fun of. That leads to haste, which leads to imprudence, which leads to disaster.
You’d better focus on finding a partner willing to have sex with you. Be charismatic, self-confident, and, well, as passionate as you can be at that age. You’ll learn the ropes once you obtain experience, but you won’t have any experience if you don’t take that first step. You get to know women more closely if you have enough experiences with them as well. I mean various experiences, not only sexual ones. However, sexual experiences will define your knowledge about women more than any other experiences.
Virginity and pornography
If the reason you’re still a virgin is that pornography and masturbation are more accessible than real sex, then we have a problem. You aren’t only missing out on many opportunities and unique experiences, but you also stand to lose more than you know in other areas. Like your testosterone level which keeps on dropping every time you jack off. Every episode of masturbation to porn movies can translate to:
- Lower self-esteem
- Lower masculinity
- Submissive attitude
- Effeminate attitude and behavior
- Lack of energy
- Apathy
These are six reasons why you should want to stop from masturbation. Alternatively, you can impress a woman, talk to her and convince her to have sex with you. That takes much more work than jacking off in front of a TV screen, admittedly. You can, however, lose your virginity without too much of a hassle by using profession escorts. Such an experience will develop your perspectives on sex because the woman alongside you has more experiences with sex than you care to know.
Once you share your bed with an escort who knows what she’s doing, you’ll almost never wish to have sex with someone else. However, there are a few disadvantages when you have sex with an escort. You don’t work hard enough to win that sex or that satisfaction. You just make a call, call the escort, unzip your trousers and fuck her however you want to. You don’t have to convince her to have sex because you’re paying her, after all. Actually, you only have to fuck her. At least you’re not a virgin anymore, right?
Quality sex
Don’t expect that your first sexual experiences will be extraordinary ones because they won’t be. However, these are experiences that you assume and use to turn yourself into a sex machine, eventually. From virginity to a god of sex, pretty much. Sounds good, right? You can get to that state if you’re willing to learn, to obtain experience. You can’t just get there without any effort at all.
Well, it’s relative if you can call a sexual experience an effort, after all. It should be something pleasant, but it all depends on how persuasive you are with your partner. It all has to be natural, and this depends on your charisma and personality. If you’re attractive enough, masculine and self-confident, you can convince almost any woman to have sex with you.
However, this is dependent on a series of qualities which are generally blunted by masturbation. If you’re still fapping like crazy after losing your virginity, you don’t have too many chances to become a god of sex. This is because pornography creates an unreal and idealistic image of sex. In reality, though, sex isn’t as pleasant and intense as the movies make it out to be.
Alongside a woman, you can meet with her refusal to do sex or to try certain sexual positions. Moreover, you can confront yourself with the most common problem of all – premature ejaculation. In porn movies, actors use medicine that increase their endurance and potency. You’re not a porn star, I assume. You won’t have the same performance they have.
