THE IDEAL RELATIONSHIP
Does the ideal relationship exist?
It depends on what you understand by “ideal”. If you expect everything to be all milk and honey, no conflicts or problems at all, then you’re wrong. There is no such thing, unless you marry yourself. All people are different and they fit together in a relationship with those differences. Your partner has certain things that she’s interested in, things that she likes, a certain attitude or personality that are different to yours. That’s just what you love about her.
You are attracted by her specific traits, what make her different to other people. As long as you know how to manage your relationship and your woman, the ideal relationship can be put into practice. It depends on you, as a man, to construct your ideal relationship. No one can just toss it to you and no one can manage your woman for you. Perhaps, the ideal relationship means comfort, peace and quiet, and good sex to you.
To her, perhaps it means affection, love, attention, and love. She wants you to love her, to be with her during trying times, and to make her happy. The ideal is somewhere in the middle. You need to make some compromises to get to that middle ground. So, maybe you’ll have to give up on on a few moments of comfort to accept her, and she has to wash your dirty socks.
An ideal relationship exists relative to your perception on imperfection. If there are feelings of love there, then your relationship will go on happily ever after. Of course, you need to assume responsibility and take the lead of the relationship. You need to guide your own woman on the right path. She doesn’t really know where she’s going or what she’s supposed to do without you.
Need-to-know things about relationships
Relationships can be complicated or they can be simple. It depends on your perception of women. If you overcomplicate things, then the relationship will be complicated. If you’re an angry sack of sour potatoes that no one can talk to, then the relationship gets torn to bits. Your woman will be eventually tired of all the conflicts and needless communication attempts. If you act like a peasant, your relationship will drop harder than your testosterone when drinking soy milk.
The ideal relationship is based on a few simple aspects:
- The man must be reasonable
- The woman must be understanding
- Functional and reciprocal communication
- Open-minded attitude
- Assuming responsibilities
- Sexual compatibility
These are the main aspects that a healthy relationship is based on. When you’re dealing with a rowdy piece of shit woman who only wants to have fun and take no responsibilities, things won’t work. Similarly, with a violent and aggressive bastard of a man who can’t communicate for shit, a functional relationship is just a dream. Everything should be in the middle, toward understanding and peace.
Experience is handy and necessary to create a long-standing relationship. It’s useful because you already know how to approach your woman, what not to allow her, and when to give up because she’s batshit insane. Without prior experience, it’ll be much harder to make these judgments. Most likely, she’ll butter you up and sweeten you until you accept anything. This is a recipe for romantic disaster.
Why do some relationships fail?
Many relationships fail today because people are irresponsible, immature, and they have stupid expectations from each other. That’s one thing. The second thing is that many people are stupid, idiots, uneducated, and their ethical principles are too weak. Precarious education and the lack of personal responsibility lead to many conflicts in a relationship.
Like I was saying, an uneducated and stupid man will likely be impulsive, violent, aggressive, rude, lacking in empathy, and so on. An uneducated and stupid woman will be grumpy, rowdy, has a big mouth, she’s egocentric, and she’s also unreasonable. Now think what would happen if you put these two together. They’d either rip each other’s throats out or knock their heads on a wall trying to change a lightbulb.
The second most important thing about failed relationships is sex. I can’t even overestimate the importance of sex in a relationship. If you can’t fuck your woman the right way, she’ll start buttering up to the second-floor neighbor or the postman. Similarly, if your woman always has a headache or two, you’ll want to fuck any woman you see. Going to the whorehouse now.
It’s perfectly normal, if you think about it. All of us have physical and sexual needs. One of the reasons you chose to stay with your partner is sexual compatibility. I find it hard to believe that you don’t have sex. A relationship without sex is like a car without wheels, a pizza without olives, and so on. You get the idea.
Can you fix a broken relationship?
If the reason you broke up is that you were a dumb fuck and acted in a dumb fuck way, then you can surely bring your partner back. Just stop being and acting like a dumb fuck and it’ll all sort itself out. If you’re a naturally unreasonable man with no chances at every changing your thoughts or behavior, then the chances for that are dismal. You won’t be able to break bread with anyone.
However, if you can do something about it and atone for your mistakes, then get to work and prove to her that you can do it. Slowly, your relationship will come back to what it once was, and go even further. The same thing can be said about your partner, as well. If she was the problematic one, then tell her that. She can either change something or she’ll be getting no more dick.
The ideal relationship is made up of two people who live together and work together to maintain that relationship alive. Both you and your partner have a role to play. The sooner you understand that, the better. Your relationship needs both of you to survive and to thrive in the long-term.
