THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN
Reason versus emotions
Generally speaking, the difference between men and women revolves around the opposition between reason and emotions. One essential aspect in this sense is the way in which each perceives the world and reacts to it. Men tend to be more reasonable, realistic, and rational in solving certain problems. They see the bigger picture without being distracted. Most of the times, they reach the most reliable solution.
Women, on the other hand, tend to use their instincts and emotions most of the times. Instead of deducing certain things, they feel them, relying mostly on what their gut feelings tell them. When it comes to solving a problem, a woman finds it harder to choose the easy way out – which is rationality. She tends to react and behave according to her emotions.
Regarding romanticism, the situation is the same. Women become idealistic, incurable romantics which can be hurt by one misused word or a fictional interpretation of what you said. Indeed, this doesn’t mean that men don’t get emotional or impulsive, and that they don’t get lost in the throes of romanticism. However, their baseline still revolves around rationality and emotional stability. Or that’s how it should be.
The advantages of the fair sex
The representatives of the fair sex have certain advantages that, to us, men, are irresistible. More precisely, I’m talking about the feminine sexuality which, most of the times, represents a decisive factor in men’s decision making process. Although women aren’t as rational or pragmatic as men are, they have something that compensates for these downsides.
I’m talking about the physical aspects and the natural sexuality that gives women an attractive allure. As a man, you can’t stop yourself from being attracted and intrigued by a woman who knows her way around her sexuality. To make themselves noticed, women call on various feminine enhancers that will only intensify their sexuality.
Men, on the other hand, don’t rely on aesthetics and sexuality. Their masculinity and aggressiveness are the desirable elements that women are naturally attracted to. A man creates a good impression through the force of his masculinity, his emotional stability, and his mature, rational attitude. Self-confidence is a very important element of a man’s attractiveness as well. Without it, he wouldn’t exactly have a resounding success with women.
Emotional overload
Because she is more emotional, a woman will let emotions and impulses influence her decision making, thus throwing herself into uncertain situations. It’s no secret that emotions tend to be less reliable and certain than rational deductions. Precisely because of this, a woman tends to worry about the most insignificant details, even if no one would normally notice it.
Moreover, the irrational fears that women suffer from are emotional at their core as well. For instance, the fear of darkness and the perceived hidden danger that lurks on the corner of their eyes, result from emotional appreciations of the world. Instinctual and emotional impressions are largely erroneous, simply because they aren’t the result of rational thinking. Men also have irrational fears, which only shows that emotions have a stronger influence than reason does.
Another substantial difference between men and women is the way in which they react when they’re put in critical situations and they have to take immediate decisions. A woman tends to judge the situation emotionally, so she’ll emphasize her feelings toward the problem itself. She becomes worried, fearful, and this clouds her judgment, making her unable to take a good decision.
Most of the times, a man won’t let himself be clouded by emotions that much. Instead, he uses the data and knowledge at his disposal to take the best decision possible for that specific problem. Even if his decision is ultimately a bad one because of insufficient knowledge, the process is rational at its core, not emotional.
How to impress the opposite sex
Both men and women have their own techniques to make themselves noticed to the other sex. Women are masters of this game, having many possibilities to beautify and enhance their own advantages. Generally, an attractive and beautiful woman already knows and applies certain feminine techniques to impress other men.
Be it cosmetic tools or the attitude she shows to others, both of them contribute to a woman’s attractiveness. Without too much of a hassle, she succeeds in attracting the attention of other men. Therefore, women have a series of innate advantages when it comes to impressing the opposite sex – their sexuality and physical attributes that do all the work for them.
A man doesn’t have to do much to attract a woman. Contrary to the popular myth that women or virgins propagate, men don’t have to get out of their way to impress or attract a woman’s attention. The truth is that you don’t have to do much so any woman can notice you. However, you need to fulfill a few simple conditions:
- Groom yourself. In other words, you should look like a human being, and not a greasy beer-chugging sailor who stinks worse than some week-old socks
- Wear decent clothes to maintain your seriousness and dignity. If you don’t respect yourself, why would women respect you?
- Behave like a dignified grown-up, not a fussy teenager who can’t accept being contradicted
- Be natural and self-confident, not a wuss who’s afraid of polluting the atmosphere with his presence
- Master your own emotions, and don’t become desperate for a woman
If you manage to fulfill all these conditions, then you have all the chances to be intriguing to most women, especially the one you like. However, don’t be thinking that she’ll strike up a conversation if all you’re doing is stare at her hopefully. Be brave, grow some balls, and go talk to her. Be honest and straightforward. I guarantee that she won’t expect that since most other men would try to charm her with cheap lines.
If she’s into you, then well done, you’ve just gotten yourself a sweet date with a beautiful woman. If she declines your romantic attempts, then, most likely, she wouldn’t have changed her mind no matter what you did. Give up while you still have your dignity intact. Be understanding and natural, not overreact or become upset.
