THE ATTRACTION OF FETISHES
What are fetishes?
According to the definition, a fetish implies abnormal sexual arousal or interest in an external object, like a pair of glasses. Cosplaying is another type of fetish, where arousal appears once a person sees someone else dressed in those specific clothes. Like I said earlier, glasses are a well-known sexual element because they illustrate the image of a nerdy woman with no sexual experience. It appeals to a man’s inner desire to control and teach women. The simple observation of glasses produces sexual arousal in a man with this fetish.
The same happens with various cosplay costumes that lead to sexual arousal in various degrees, depending on the specific costume and the partner’s imagination. Perhaps you feel attracted to a nurse or policewoman costume, which your girlfriend could don for you. It’s like a forbidden pleasure because, normally, you can’t just fuck any nurse or policewoman you see on the street. These repressed desires come alive via these fetishes.
Sexual arousal is much more intense the more a fetish is tied to something antisocial, abnormal, and blamable. Take the idea of incest, for instance, which is one of the most intriguing, attractive, and popular fetishes promoted on porn sites. The idea of having sex with a family member has an obvious attractiveness (at least theoretically), whose origins are biological and psychological in nature. However, there are numerous types of fetishes, each more absurd, gross or even dangerous than the other.
The variety of sexual fetishes
Fetishes fall into two main categories, in which tens of specific fetishes are included. One the one hand, we have fetishes tied to inanimate objects, which we’ve exemplified above. On the other hand, we can talk about fetishes tied to specific non-genital body parts. The latter category is more socially acceptable, becoming even normal in many ways. You must have heard men complimenting women’s tits or asses, right?
Indeed, a fetish related to tits must manifest in an extreme interest toward that body part in order to be a true fetish. In other words, for a person with this fetish, tits represent the most attractive female body part, which brings supreme arousal. Everything else is secondary but arousal coming from other stimuli aren’t diminished after all. In the same way, there are fetishes related to the ears, nose, lips, toes, stomach, and so on.
There are people who feel significantly aroused if they touch or kiss the partner’s stomach. Many times, this action brings them more satisfaction that even sex itself. Because fetishes are so varied, attraction toward them has risen as of late, getting to partial openness for them. Many escorts provide services that include satisfying many of these fetishes, for instance.
Erotic asphyxiation
Erotic asphyxiation is a type of fetish that implies the choking of the partner in order to provide sexual stimulation. Sometimes, this fetish becomes largely exaggerated because the person can be brought on the verge of semi-consciousness, endangering one’s life. Erotic asphyxiation can be practiced on yourself with various devices that limits your oxygen input. One you get to a state of near-suffocation, you become sexually aroused and you can enjoy sex or masturbation.
This type of fetish is called auto-erotic asphyxiation because it involves one person choking himself. You can use a plastic bag, a gas, a rope, or any other tools that provoke a state of asphyxiation. Evidently, there have been many cases of accidental death tied to this fetish. People have actually managed to commit suicide while seeking sexual pleasure. It’s not uncommon at all, as long as you’re using dangerous methods to achieve your goals.
This fetish is a form of masochism, which is a fetish in and of itself. As long as it produces sexual stimulation and arousal, anything can be a fetish. If you like reading a book while your girl is giving you a blowjob, then that can become a fetish, if you’re crazy enough about it. Use your imagination and give birth to your own fetish that only you have – the sky’s the limit. Erotic asphyxiation might not suit you, after all.
Are fetishes abnormal?
In the strictest sense of the word, almost any fetish is abnormal because it’s not something most people engage in. Most people aren’t fixated on the sexual attractiveness of toes, for instance. This is only true for a part of the population. For the rest, it’s something completely absurd and irrational, because they aren’t sexually aroused in any way by toes. Quite the opposite, in fact, they feel grossed out. A fetish is abnormal for any person that doesn’t have it, in other words.
However, some fetishes have become a part of the collective culture and they’re not looked upon as weird anymore. For instance, fetishes tied to costumes and glasses have become normal over time because most people have some forms of these fetishes. Only their gravity differs – someone can be attracted to long socks, and someone else might be crazy about skirts. Someone else could absolutely love evening dresses, and so on. However, even a normal person with no fetishes wouldn’t consider these specific ones abnormal.
Sex can be as diverse as you imagine it to be. You don’t have to limit yourself to the classic sex that everyone does. After all, you’re going to get bored eventually. If you’re the type to be constantly on the lookout for novelties, you’ll want to exploit such fetishes. It’s a guarantee that your sexual experiences will improve and become more satisfying after figuring out your fetishes.
If your partner agrees to your proposal, the gates to supreme sexual satisfaction are opened to you. In turn, you’d better make sure she’s satisfied and happy with the sex – perhaps she has a few fetishes that you could enforce. Perhaps she wants you to simulate raping her. Use the information in this article in a smart way – discover your fetishes and thoroughly enjoy your sexual life! It’s the only one you’ve got, after all. There’s no time wasting.
