SEXUAL ATTRACTION TOWARDS THE OPPOSITE SEX
Masculinity equal to sexuality
For a man, his attractiveness is directly determined by the level of masculinity that he emanates on the outside. Evidently, we’re talking about opposite-sex attraction. The more self-confident and individualized a man is, the more women will swarm around him, drooling at the perspective of being fucked wildly by him.
This perspective isn’t exactly new or innovative. It’s been studied for some time by psychologists and sociologists. It can also be observed in real time by looking at the social relations between individuals. This is why people believe the perspective that women prefer the so-called bad boys who behave badly with them.
It’s because aggressiveness is tightly connected to masculinity. It’s one of the essential characteristics of virility and masculine authority, therefore of sexual attraction. So, the more masculine you appear as a man, the more your romantic and sexual potential towards the opposite sex will grow.
One of the explanations for this psychological phenomenon can be observed in the socio-genetic inheritance of each sex. Historically and biologically speaking, men have always represented masculinity and authority, the protective ideal, of defending women and ensuring her security. In those times, the strongest and most aggressive man who proved his strength of character and physical prowess became the masculine ideal of all women.
Although slightly diluted and adapted to the current societal standards, this mentality still lives on. And it will live on in the future, most probably.
Respectful and well-intended men don’t have the same sexual success
Of course. This is because, most of the times, these respectful men aren’t as self-confident or masculine as the virile and dominant men we spoke of earlier. Men who always decry the injustice of their lives where, despite the servile and respectful attitude towards women, they don’t garner any attention from them. They are, actually, non-masculine and, thus, unattractive.
It’s not respect and the equalitarian attitude that makes pussies wet, unfortunately for them. This is because, most of the times, these men that self-catalogue themselves as respectful are, actually submissive and servile, lacking in any individuality and masculinity. Clearly, respect towards women isn’t intrinsically negative but it can degenerate into weakness and servility. Which aren’t attractive to women.
The social roles, despite their strong rejection by the supporters of the egomaniac and insulting movement which is the modern-day feminism, are actually essential in a society. It is these social roles that the human interactions between the two sexes are based upon. More precisely, it means that each sex accepts and acknowledges his or her social/professional/behavioral and attitudinal predilections, and behaves accordingly
This doesn’t imply in any way that women have to accept being brutalized in any way by men, simply because this is how people used to behave in the past. Just as the physical or verbal violence of men doesn’t have to be accepted or tolerated. What the acknowledgement of social role means is that each individual needs to understand that some behaviors are preferable to others. In other words, they lead to social harmony, better communication and understanding between men and women and, in this case, sexual attractiveness.
This is what I mean when saying that women like masculine men. It’s because masculinity and the protective status of a man represents exactly the social role that he acknowledges and accepts from the very beginning. It logically follows that he gets the attention and appreciation of the opposite sex who is unconsciously programmed to be attracted by these traits.
The emotional and sensitive woman versus the masculine and revolting woman
These principles apply to women as well. The natural state of a woman is being sensitive, tender, emotional, effeminate in one word. It is this exponent of the beautiful sex that most men are attracted to. It is these women that men want as life partners.
It is the same type of woman that men want to make love with and, not surprisingly, it is still with them that they want to have children with. This is because, psychologically and biologically speaking, a woman is naturally built to be sensitive, emotional, tender, and affectionate. This is what makes her feel happy and natural. Not something like a self-imposed masculinity or aggressiveness that is but an artificial coating which leads to unhappiness in the end.
A man will not feel attracted to a woman who manifests such masculine or competitive traits. This is just as true as how women aren’t attracted to effeminate men who manifest woman-specific traits. Both are equally true and real.
This is why sensitive and emotionally vulnerable men who respect women above their own individuality and masculinity won’t have a place in the wet dreams of too many women. Just as how hard-ass feminists who support the masculinization of women and the suppression of sensitivity aren’t exactly getting enough dick. Actually, they might get dick from the abomination of the 21st century – the feminist man who, servile and submissive, wants to have as many feminist pussies as he wants. Which he obviously doesn’t, in the end.
The secret of sexuality and attractiveness – social roles
In all truth, it is no secret that the social roles are the Alpha and the Omega of social relations, of sexual attractiveness, of a developed libido, and so on. The natural state of any individual is the one that attracts the opposite sex. That is, masculinity coming from men and femininity coming from women.
It is these two states that represent the essence and the starting point of all romantic and sexual relationships between men and women. Of course, there are exceptions to this rule but that’s why they’re exceptions. Because they aren’t too numerous to change the rule.
In 9 cases out of 10, a man will be much more attracted to a sensitive and feminine woman rather than a masculine, competitive, and aggressive one. Just as a woman will prefer a man who is self-confident, masculine and dominant, rather than a complaining man-whore who pretends to respect women and satisfy their desires unconditionally.
This is because the two exponents of masculinized women and effeminate men are unnatural, states that the human psyche doesn’t recognize as being part of the normal. It doesn’t fit any of the known and preferred categories to which romantic and sexual attraction manifest.
