SEX IS DIFFERENT FOR WOMEN

Masculine simplicity versus feminine complexity

As a man, you already know how easy it is to reach a climax. Annoyingly easy, we could say. The fact that we’re predisposed to an early orgasm after barely 10 seconds of sex is an upsetting aspect for 3rd millennium males. But, come to think of it, it’s an evolutionary biologic advantage. In a social context where the transmission of genes separates the winners from the losers, being capable of swift copulation was a perk. Of course, these times where we fought for food with stone clubs and slingshots are long gone.

Today, not being able to last for more than a minute has become a reason to be ashamed of. Why is that? Because a man’s sexual performance is measured through a woman’s satisfaction. Practically, if you want to be considered a virile stud, you need to be able to satisfy a woman, preferably more of them, and as often as you can. And this is more difficult that it would first seem.

The secret to feminine sexuality

To declare that women are different from men is a truism. They are so different that they might as well be from different planets. When it comes to sex, women function based on emotions. They are more romantic, more spiritual, and more sensitive. It’s not enough to stick your cock in them and wobble your ass a few times. Well, it might be enough for you, but definitely not for them.

The problem with today’s porn movies and scenarios has always been that it trivializes the whole issue. In porn movies, everything seems to be idealized and absolutely incredible, because it makes an appeal to man’s nature. We all wish for women who are ready for action, without any kind of emotional pretenses, without the need for foreplay, and without too many personal needs. The carnal version of sex dolls, in other words.

The reason for which, when we join our partner in bed, we appear disillusioned and disappointed is that reality is different from what we’re led to believe in porn movies. Women need many more things to be satisfied, including:

A delicious prelude

I know that this sounds like a hassle for many men, but the prelude is absolutely necessary if you want to obtain positive results. When it comes to sex, the last thing you’d want to do is rush into it. Or her for that matter. Studies show that men prefer sex sessions to last for about 8 to 10 minutes, while women go over 15 minutes. I might have pulled these numbers out of my anal cavity, so don’t take them for granted. The idea is that women wish for longer sex, longer than men do.

In this context, a steamy prelude is absolutely necessary. In many cases, the prelude can last even longer than the sex itself. So it would be high time you started working on this aspect. The good news is – as you gain more experience, you’ll get better at it.

Romanticism and love

Us, men, we can fuck pretty much anything with a hole on it. Ask the Muslims. Women, however, are more complicated than that. They need an amorous context, of a pinch of sentimentalism and love. Even when you’re talking about those libertine chicks who fuck 6 different guys in 7 days, the same principles apply. Not even they fuck like men do – animalistic, disinterested.

This leads one to think about one thing – sex will get better in a long-standing relationship if there are feelings mixed in. Perhaps this is why sex done with your loved one is different than the fucking you had with the slut around the corner who’ll munch on your cock for 20 bucks.

A strong masculine image

The idea of separation between alpha and beta males always persisted in time. The alpha males are the imposing guys, both physically and emotionally, the guys that know what they want, and how they want to obtain it. On the other hand, betas are weak, sensitive, unsure, and somewhat feminized. The betas are the guys who will stay at home with the kids, while their women go to work every day. Gavin McInnes (comedian and media personality) once said that this kind of guy wouldn’t see her women giving him head that often. No woman wants to blow a guy sitting at home like a housewife.

It all boils down to the image you project. And in the 21st century, image can be summed up in two words – character and money. Psychologists have noticed that men whose wives win more than them tend to suffer from emotional impotence. Practically, they have a mental breakdown, more or less, that steals their manhood. Women want strong men who know what they want from life and fight will all their willpower to achieve their goals. So organize your life, analyze yourself drastically, and become the man that women need!

What does quality sex mean?

For men, quality sex is reflected in a woman’s pleasure meter. At least, for the men that are more intellectually advanced that the simple-minded drunkard leaning against the fence at night. We tend to see a sexual act as successful when a woman gets to an orgasm. Women, however, are more egotistic, generally speaking. For them, quality sex is based on their pleasure, not their partners’.

As a man, I believe your mission should be to ensure the sexual pleasure in the couple. Like I said, you don’t require much to be sexually satisfied. Your woman, however, does. Quality sex, in essence, must strive for the pleasure of both partners. But it depends on you, as a man, to make this come true.

So take the initiative. See what doesn’t work in your relationship, and start building yourself to match the image of the perfect sexual man! To be happy, women don’t need too many things. Some money, a trustworthy man alongside them, and phenomenal sex. As long as you check these boxes, you shouldn’t have too many issues becoming a real Don Juan.