SEX FOR PLEASURE OR PASSION
What’s the difference between the two?
On the one hand, there’s sex for pleasure, to receive the ultimate physical satisfaction. On the other hand, we have sex for passion and love, based on feelings and affection. The difference between the two becomes obvious once we compare them. One is purely physical, the other involves feelings. For the first type, you can go to professional escorts or pick up the average fuck-buddy in town. Spend the night with her, and the next day, both of you will forget about each other. That’s sex for pleasure.
Passionate sex is the one you do with your partner, wife or girlfriend, the person who’s chosen to be with you forever. This type of sex isn’t one aimed at purely physical pleasure, but rather aimed at emotional fulfillment. You love having passionate sex with your partner simply because you’re fucking your partner and not someone else. This type of sex would lose its essence if you’d do it with someone you don’t care about. It would turn into sex for pleasure.
However, the question is – which type of sex is more beneficial, and why? Each has its advantages and disadvantages, but only one of them leads to a healthy relationship. Can you guess of which I’m talking about? Passionate sex, of course. Only this type of sex can propel your relationship to the peak of happiness, ensuring comfort and stability in the relationship. We’ll see exactly how this happens in the next paragraphs.
Why is passionate sex healthier than sex for pleasure?
We all see around us all kinds of people. Some of them have relationships, other break up with their partners, while others have no relationships at all and prefer fucking cheap whores. Among them, the ones with the healthiest lifestyles are the ones with stable relationships who have passionate sex. That’s because passionate sex experienced with your life-long partner satisfies you on more than one level. You are psychologically fulfilled and you receive self-confidence when you have passionate sex.
It’s because you’re living these experiences alongside your partner that makes passionate sex much better than sex for pleasure. It’s widely known that sex is a fundamental aspect of any relationship. Everything else that make up a relationship coagulates around sex, especially for a woman. In fact, a woman needs special attention during sex, and she wants you to satisfy her as best as possible. If you don’t, then she’s going to look for her satisfaction elsewhere.
The pleasure brought about by passionate sex transcends the physical barriers and reaches into the emotional realms. Other than pleasure, you feel almost nothing when fucking an escort, right? It’s just the pleasure of fucking a beautiful woman. There’s nothing special about the woman next to you. You just want to cum on her face as hard as possible and fuck her wet pussy. Well, this type of experience tends to desensitize you toward passionate sex.
Sexual desensitization
If this is your first time hearing about this concept, it’s not a surprise. No one really cares about the disadvantages that occur when it comes to purely physical sex. Like I said previously, when you fuck casually, you feel nothing but sexual pleasure. You’re desensitizing yourself toward a combination of physical and emotional pleasure from sex. Sex becomes casual for you, just an act of pleasure that you can do at any time, with anyone. You feel nothing unique while doing it, not even when you get into a relationship.
You should think hard on these aspects and realize that too much casual sex can make it hard for you to empathize with your partner later on. For her, sex is something special that you share with each other. For you, though, it’s just an act that gives you pleasure and nothing else. Following this sexual desensitization, sex becomes a meaningless routine. You do it because it has to be done. In time, the relationship will turn into a boring routine. Your partner will lack the passion and affection that passionate sex would provide. You won’t notice a thing, of course, until it’s too late.
Your wife will already have a lover a few years in the future. You’ll start noticing that she’s a bit late on weekends. You don’t have the faintest idea that she’s been fucking her coworker for a whole year now. Care to guess why? Because that guy knows how to make her feel loved and cared for during sex. Sure, she fucks her like an animal afterward, but the feelings matter as well. You might have a lover yourself, in which case the relationship becomes redundant.
Paid sex has its advantages
I’m not saying that fucking escorts is a bad idea. I’m just saying that there are better and healthier ways of satisfying your sexual needs long-term. A relationship would help you improve yourself much more than fucking unknown women does. If you manage to impress a woman and get into a relationship with her, you grow up and become much more responsible for yourself. The personal development that occurs following a relationship goes beyond anything that a whore can offer you.
Despite all this, paid sex has a sacred role – that of providing physical satisfaction whenever and wherever you want it. It’s a comfortable service made accessible to any man, anywhere in the world. When you’re looking for fast sex with no obligations, hire a professional escort and that’s it. Going to the whores also helps you become more experienced with the female body and sexuality.
You become a connoisseur of the female psychology and biology. Once you get into a relationship, you’ll be able to apply the sexual techniques learned from these escorts. This will bring you the immediate appreciation of your partner. However, passionate sex alongside your partner leads to much better long-term results than casual sex. Casual sex only helps you unwind and get some pleasure with a random woman. The sex you have with your partner is special and unique, though.
