ROMANTIC DIFFICULTIES
Romantic inaptitude
There are some men out there, biologically speaking, who have no idea how to impress or attract a woman’s attention. The rank of Homo Sapiens is wasted on them, which says a lot about them. I’m talking about the involuntary celibates who swear on the Bible and the American constitution that women are conspiring against fucking them. Not just women though, but the whole Universe concocted a perfidious plan to keep them virgins and unloved. They’re innocent lambs, victims of the Providence.
Coming back down to earth, we can discuss about the truth behind this “enigma” of these individuals’ romantic and sexual inaptitude. What’s their problem, and is there really a conspiracy barring women from fucking them? Of course not, just as there isn’t any conspiracy hiding the truth about a Flat Earth. The problem lies entirely with them – they’re socially inept, and they have the personality of a mustard stain splashed on the pavement.
How do you expect to attract the attention of a woman when all you can say is “hello” and “uhuh” without short-circuiting your cerebellum? A masculine man must prove he has a strong character, emotional stability, calmness, and charisma. No one’ll gut you if you say something wrong, so you don’t have to be scared of this. The same happens when these guys want to take a woman out on a date – they’d rather bathe in elephant crap than speak. Of course, not all involuntary celibates are so inapt.
What’s the source of this mystery?
There’s no mystery, actually. It’s just a lack of self-confidence, the lack of hobbies, and a weak personality. These three reasons are the main evildoers leading to their repeated failures in romance. They prefer hiding and dismissing these flaws. That’s why they gather ‘round in groups where they wallow in self-pity, and build plans to seek revenge on all the diabolical women who refuse them. Instead, if they’d make efforts into becoming better men and finding some hobbies to define themselves, things would take a turn for the better.
Firstly, the lack of self-confidence leads to low adaptation and social inaptitude. Because they aren’t confident in what they say or do, they’re inhibited. All their actions will be limited as a consequence. Moreover, it’s obvious that they’re embarrassed and fearful of failure. They don’t have the courage to invite a woman out or to pay her compliments – they could embarrass themselves, after all. They don’t know how to talk to women for the same reasons.
Similarly, the lack of personal interests and hobbies limit their verbal potential to other people. What could they talk about with a woman if they don’t have hobbies or they lack the self-confidence to talk about them? Moreover, to compare apples to pairs, a limping sailor stinking of fish and booze has three times the charisma than these cry-babies.
The solution to this romantic problem
What could involuntary celibates to do solve the problem they’re facing against? Firstly, what they shouldn’t do is take vengeance on all female-kind out of a deformed sense of self-justice. The idea is that no woman is guilty for refusing their romantic approaches or not sleeping with them. This isn’t a world where women have to fuck you simply because you’re good and kind, and you love all women equally. No one is obliged to do anything in this sense if they don’t feel like it.
If you, as a man, aren’t able to impress and persuade a woman to sleep with you, then that’s your own problem. No one’s responsible for your verbal ineptitude or your social embarrassment. A weak personality and character are the result of a lifestyle and the choices you make. They can be corrected just as easy as you can learn how to talk to women. A masculine man with enough self-confidence to talk to women doesn’t care about failure – nothing can lower his morale. He’s persistent and ballsy enough to get up and try again.
Involuntary celibates, instead, think entirely differently. At least those that don’t admit their weaknesses and inaptitude, because that’s whom we’re talking about. They believe that the world owes them love and sex, especially women, which they condemn for not offering love and sex. For them, women are in the wrong, and they’re seeking justice. Romanticism and sex, however, are related to both men and women – each of us has feelings. Both parts must agree to enter a relationship or have sex but no one’s obliged to do it.
Masculinity attracts attention.
In a man’s arsenal, masculinity plays an essential role. A strong personality and a steady character have a greater influence than all the gifts in the world. No one wants to live alongside a lousy cry-baby who can’t get a grip on his own person. As long as a man is emotional, empathetic, and weak, women will give him a wide berth of at least 10 meters. Any place where such men appear become festive playgrounds where everyone makes fun at their expense.
Numerous jokes are played on such individuals because they don’t know how to react or protect their dignity with courage. Even if they make an effort to prevent such mockery, they react emotionally and impulsively, more often than not justifying the mockery.
Both men and women avoid taking them seriously because not even they can take themselves seriously, which is bad enough. All they can do is make cheap one-liners and agree with everyone. If they have a different point of view, they’d rather not say it – what if people mock them or they make someone feel bad?
It’s better to keep it wrapped up, hoping no one asks them anything. However, reality is unpredictable, and when they are asked so mething, they can’t phrase their thoughts coherently. It’s not surprising that these men meet with countless romantic failures when there are masculine, strong, and imposing men out there. Sex and love are concepts that men must thoroughly understand and play by specific rules if they want to achieve success.
