NYMPHOMANIA. A PROBLEM OR AN ADVANTAGE?
Why a problem?
Simple enough, because of the presuppositions that, if you like to fuck, you’re a whore. Obviously, we’re talking about women here because nymphomania strictly refers to women, both the term and the psychological affection. Based on this fact alone, that it’s a psychological affection, the shitty criticizing should stop.
It’s perceived as a problem because, unlike “true” women that keep their dignity and the appearance of purity, nymphomaniacs fall prey to more intense and passionate feelings and needs, which they accept and submit to. They either can’t control themselves or they don’t do it very well, or they just don’t want to. In the end, it’s no secret that sex is enjoyable and very pleasing.
This begins from the idea that a woman should take care of her body, that she should carefully who to fuck, and more importantly, not to trespass over some limits because that would make her immoral and blamable. The truth is, there are a lot of fetishes and sexual fantasies that some people would catalogue as immoral or absurd, but that doesn’t make them so. All of us have them, whether we admit it or not.
Some even say fellatios are gross, something a respectable person would never do. Really, now? Well, hell yeah, more pussy for me in that case because, guess what, women absolutely love receiving oral sex. The reverse is also true, we as men also love getting sucked off.
Of course, it would become a problem when you truly become uncontrollable and have sex with just about anyone you meet, just to satisfy those insane cravings. Personally, you’re putting yourself at risk here, but it’s your choice. What matters is that casual sex is not a particularly applaudable behavior that should be put on a pedestal. On the contrary, actually. If your reckless fucking becomes a habit, that’s when it becomes a general problem.
In spite of all this, a lot of women that casually fuck with unknown people without having feelings are actually not nymphomaniacs, or they aren’t necessarily nymphos. Why? What’s the difference, really? Well, a nymphomaniac simply loves having sex, the more the better. This doesn’t mean that her expectations are low or that she has no principles, that she’s an easy woman, a whore even less. It doesn’t mean that she’s going to suck off the first guy she meets and hang on his mate’s cock for the rest of the night. Nymphomania is actually quite applicable in a relationship, a long-term one. As long as her partner is willing and able to satisfy her desires, everything will be cool.
How about the advantages?
What advantages could an affliction that makes you crave for plenty of hot, steaming sex bring? For you, personally, it would bring pleasure and satisfaction, that’s clear. But we’re not talking about that for now. We’re talking about the advantages that it would bring to others, your partner to be more specific.
A man would never refuse a good fuck if offered one, in general, that’s clear. How could he not be amazed and pleased when he finds out that his woman not only agrees with his ideas, fantasies and fetishes, but she even comes up with others to spice things up? And that lascivious, kinky smile on her lips is just asking for a cock-slap.
Just imagine that you can satisfy and fulfill all your deepest and darkest desires with such a woman, that nothing goes over her limits, and not only that, but she’ll be absolutely thrilled and exhilarated to fuck you dead in every conceivable way. She’s even going to take the lead and propose other, even more enjoyable techniques, let alone her implication and enthusiasm. Who doesn’t want such a woman?
Things get more complicated though. With a nymphomaniac, it’s never easy because her appetite for sex is simply insatiable, or she’s extremely hard to satisfy. Let’s not forget that she just wants to fuck all the time, all day long. She gets drunk on the ecstasy and the paroxysmal carnal pleasures, on the symphony of the bodies and the diverse feelings that she has.
Be it brutal, aggressive sex, total domination or dominatrix-playstyle, she’s going to embrace both just as enthusiastically. Sadism, masochism, BDSM, she never backs off from anything, and she will surprise you with her tenacity and imagination. She might even propose a threesome. If it’s about her and another girl, everything’s good, perfect even. However, if it’s about you and another man, that’s a problem in and of itself that you have to deal with.
So, yeah, it’s going to be quite hard (or not) for you to “endure” all the fucking that she wants all the time. She wants to fuck all day long, to use that cock in all the possible ways, to hungrily slurp on it like a hungry wolf or dance on it crazily until you can’t take it anymore. She’s sapping your energy away every time, and although it’s very satisfying for you too, it becomes very tiring and disturbing. So, either she’s going to control herself better or you’re going to start refusing her.
It would be better for her to discipline her willpower, to gain control over her impulses and instincts, so that it doesn’t become bothersome. It’s obviously a great advantage for you, her sky-high sexual instincts, kinky imagination, and her insatiable craving for cock.
What should we keep in mind?
On the one hand, that there’s a stark difference between being a nymphomaniac and someone who engages in casual sex, fucks pretty much anyone with a cock without considering any principles or personal virtues. These are the whores, the women with low expectations, with little to no principles, the easy women. Sure, a nymphomaniac can become such a woman as well, but only if she chooses to. Her nymphomania doesn’t automatically take her to that level.
Psychologically speaking, nymphomania involves nothing else than heightened sexual needs, physical contact with other people, sexual contact that is. A nympho will never refuse a good fuck as long it corresponds to her expectations and principles. It’s not she’s completely incapable of controlling herself and her impulses. It’s more difficult, true, but not impossible.
It can be both a blessing and a curse. It depends on your point of view and what level of self-control she has. The only real problem would be the fact that it’s very tiring and annoying for the partner, having to drop dead from exhaustion from one single sex adventure with her. As for the advantages, I’ve already told you about them, the opportunity to satisfy all your deepest and darkest desires, all the fantasies and fetishes. Remember, she has a much dirtier mind than you do!
