IS ANAL FOR GAYS ONLY?
Okay so, let’s look at it straight – we are stepping into no man’s land. A mined no man’s land. You will never hear straight guys talking about anal, except maybe when they are the active part of the process and there is a woman involved. In short, most men view anal sex as something belonging to that grey area – most like it, some do it, but very few will admit it. One of the main reasons is the fear of labeling. A guy getting anal, even from a woman, will be viewed as emasculated. It is a common thinking, obviously with very little to do with the facts.
So is this a fetish?
Fetishes are more common than you might think. Even though, by definition, they seem to be exclusive in nature, you would be amazed to know how many people have fetishes and, I got to tell you, some of those are some weird-ass practices. Foot fetish, ass eating, scat freaks, masochists and bondage, these are all unusual practices, but quite common, paradoxically. The thing is, not many people admit adopting them, hence the impression of rareness.
But how about anal? Well, to be honest, anal can be a fetish, especially when it comes as an obsession. Because what is fetish other than a sexual obsession? However, here is where it gets interesting. You don’t have to be obsessed with anal to enjoy it. Even if it is not a fetish to you, the pleasure you will get from it is a completely objective thing.
You know, because of the prostate. Men have a G-spot located in the let’s – not – talk – about – that – hole – ever – again. Some harness it, some don’t, but it works for everybody and a lot of guys who were considering it as taboo, have a change of hearts later on.
Strap-on? Let’s see where that leads us
You know a woman with a strap-on has something appealing that you simply cannot put in words. But it is there. There is something in this picture that excites a lot of men and they could not say what it is. This is because of how we have evolved from a sexual point of view. In essence, the woman should be submissive, passive sort of speak, and the man is the active part, taking on the alpha model.
When a woman puts on a strap-on, the roles are reversed and this is something that ravishes our perception. Although we see it as a bit bizarre, we also find it interesting and somewhat appealing. Some more than others.
You would be astonished to find out how many men enjoy their girlfriend’s strap-ons and how many more start to like it after they had bashing it prior to experiencing it. Even more, you would be amazed to how many men request this anal play from escorts. I have no idea whether strap-ons were designed to accommodate lesbians or to fulfill other wild sexual fantasies, but it is quite clear where it is going today.
To use or not to use?
This is the question indeed. The fact is, no matter how pleasurable it may be, not every man enjoys a virile strap-on being rammed up his forbidden hole. And I can relate to that. A lot of you can. However, and this is the more important aspect, a lot of you guys out there would like to try it, but don’t.
There is no denying it and you can lie to others, but never to yourself. In fact, this is what gets couples in problems in the first place. Do you know the number 1 reason why men cheat on their partners? Of course, there is always the backside of the medal, where women are those who cheat, but this is a different subject we will not take on here.
What we are interested in is why men do it. The crucial factor is that, although a lot cheat, they still love their wives and would not jeopardize their marriage for nothing in the world. Which is why they would do whatever it takes not to get caught. But why do they do it, then? Why would they cheat if they risk the wellbeing of their couple life?
It is actually quite simple. All those who do it, do it in order to fulfill some sexual fantasies. There is nothing more to it than that. Either they do not have a spicy sexual life at home, they are looking for something new that their spouse is unwilling to comply with or simply due to the adrenaline involved when doing something that is forbidden, whatever the reason may be, a lot cheat.
As weird as it may seem, a lot cheat due to this anal fetish, because they cannot share this little fantasy with their partners. It is easy to approach a professional escort, who is primarily specialized in all these little sexual games that make this sport that much interesting.
So here is the deal. If you do not like anal, that is fine, not everybody does and you should always chose what suits you best. Some are classics, keeping it the old fashion way, others are the proponents of the new and bizarre. Whatever category you may belong to, there is one thing you need to keep in mind: nothing matters.
As in “do whatever you want, life is too short, who cares”. As long as you don’t affect the free will of others, there is no pleasure that we should deem taboo. Everything that makes you happy is a go, no matter the labels that you may think society will put you under. It is irrelevant.
One fact is extremely simple to comprehend. Anal is both a fetish and a natural sex act and men actually enjoy it just as much as women, if not more. So next time when your little kinky voice in your head whispers you: “Anal”, untie your belt and say “Yes, please!”
