HOW TO WIN OVER A WOMAN
Using willpower and a spirit of initiative
Most women expect a man to take the initiative, even if they’re interested in you. That’s how things work. You can either adapt to the situation or become more and more intimate to your right hand. Should you choose to take it into your own hands, the situation I mean, then well done, you’ve just made the first and most important step in conquering a woman.
I’m not just saying this to flap my gums pointlessly. Seeing as though many men lack the courage or willpower necessary to approach a beautiful woman, the one who does approach her will have a huge advantage over all the others. They have zero chances of conquering her, while you demonstrate determination and masculinity, traits that are appreciated by women.
What I mean is that you shouldn’t feel intimidated by a beautiful woman. Instead, look at her as being a challenge, but also the satisfaction of a desire. Either you want to check her on your long list of bedded women or you want a long-standing relationship, it all starts with that first step. Which isn’t inertia or waiting for her to do something.
If you desire something, you take it. This is true in all aspects of life, be it a promotion at work, a raise or a beautiful woman. If you took the initiative with the first two cases, then why would you remain still with your eyes roasting in the sun in this case?
Give up on theatrics and be natural
More precisely, don’t try to be someone you clearly aren’t and impress her with things that don’t represent you. That is, if you want her for something more than just a few nights of wild sex. In that case, keep on doing what you were doing. Most probably, she’ll be eager to jump in your bed if she’s an easy woman or if she’s looking for the same thing.
If, instead, romance and emotions motivate you, and a long-standing relationship is more desirable, then you need to do things differently. The same tactic of a cheapskate pretension or flexing your muscles isn’t going to do anything other than show her how superficial and vain you are. So, unless you have the mind of an 18-year old pre-pubescent teen, you’ll let your convincing charm and over-the-top masculinity to do all the hard work.
Women like confident men who act naturally in the face of potential social repercussions. Obviously, this means that they are self-disciplined, and they’re never intimidated by the opinions of others. Of course, if your natural state is that of a second rate thug with a panache for hugging the bathroom floors of the nearest club in a drunken frenzy, then you’ll only attract like-minded women.
Since this isn’t the case, your natural grace should reflect your self-discipline, masculinity, charisma, and confidence. The way in which you manifest yourself can oscillate, either extroverted or introverted. It makes no difference if it’s within the boundaries of normalcy.
Desperation and clinginess aren’t attractive at all
Many men or, to be more precise, many teens tend to obsessively follow a woman without considering her refusals or uncertainties. They simply keep on insisting and groveling like beaten dogs. That does nothing but make her keep her distance.
The idea is that you should give up the chase while you still have your dignity intact. If you obsessively persist in a desperate way, you’re losing your last ounce of self-respect and the impression that she had about you.
You’ll never manage to convince a woman to be with you by behaving in this way. In fact, no serious woman will want an impulsive and compulsive partner alongside her, someone who doesn’t even respect himself to know when to give up.
The same principle can also be applied to a relationship fresh out of Cupid’s oven. Perhaps you really are attracted to her, and you love her, but don’t make the mistake of overstepping your bounds with romance and stickiness.
Don’t transform a perfectly stable and promising relationship in a dependency vicious circle. A woman will need her free time but, most of all, she wants to know her partner is responsible, self-sufficient, and confident in his own person.
Be understanding, not aggressive or egotistic
A woman likes to know you listen to her, that you understand her grieving, that you can share in her joys. She wants to see you interested in her life, to know that she can rely on you in the most critical moments.
But this implies calmness from you, to be understanding, and to be able to empathize or intuitively perceive your partner’s personality. I’m not saying you should become a submissive man who does nothing else but listen to his woman’s orders and proceeds to satisfy them accordingly. That’s not what a healthy relationship means. And, as a vigorous man with a strong character, you couldn’t even lower yourself to such a position.
However, you can be tender in a masculine way without having your third member falling off. You don’t become less of a man if you grant her an ounce of attention and understanding. In any case, I wouldn’t even suggest you had to take in all the verbal diarrhea without uttering a sound because that would be a torture.
Despite this, the other extreme isn’t preferable either. Namely, having a volcanic temperament that inhibits her personality any time she even things about saying something.
In other words , you need to hold the reigns in the relationship while also giving her the impression that you’re listening to her inputs and that you care about her ideas. Even if you might want to wipe your ass with some of the things she’s telling you about.
These are the main things you need to follow if you want to conquer a woman. Firstly, natural grace and masculinity are essential starting points. Because a woman is biologically programmed to be attracted to the virility and confidence in a man.
Her brain will communicate to her unconscious that she can rely on you as a protector, and chemistry does the rest. Why do you think women are attracted to the so-called bad boys? Because masculinity is a powerful pheromone.
