HOW TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN
Not by using reason, that much is clear
The woman is a slightly different entity when it comes to her thought process. Her brain functions differently than a man’s. In what way? Well, first off, a woman tends to care more about the emotional appreciation of something, instead of the rational and logical one.
This is why you’ll see that most of the leftists are women who yell at the top of their lungs that you offend them. All this sentimentality is propagated by women, then they’re received by other women or even worse, the new brand of femininity – leftist men.
Communicating with your feminine partner – the idea is that you’re pissing in the wind if you’re trying the old-fashioned rational approach. This is simply because some situations are impossible to rationalize with a woman.
You’ll explain something to her now, she appears to understand. Fast-forward one and a half hour later – she does the exact same thing you had the discussion for. Just like the information magically disappeared from her brain.
Be imposing and categorical
I bet you were something some of the sort – “level the playing field and become empathetic”. Not a chance. Because a naturally rational man will find it incredibly hard to become emotional and use that instead of reason. Beyond this, it’ll do nothing but bring another useless approach to the table.
So, all you have to do is impose your opinion and make her understand that she has to follow what you dictate. This is because a woman will make emotional decisions, leaving reason and rationality aside. Consequently, it means that, most of the times, she’s looking at a problem from a perspective that’s as remote from an actual solution as the probability of a vegan going obese.
Every time you’re having a conflict or an argument in this sense, simply tell her what’s going to happen, if you’re already clear on the best path forward. It’s useless to try to convince her rationally because it’s simply not going to work. Not with a woman.
Emotions dictate
As I was saying, a woman’s thinking process functions on a different wavelength than that of a man. She does things because that’s how she feels like. Because she likes or dislikes something, not necessarily because there’s a logical reason behind it.
And it’s perfectly natural. That’s the nature of women. Trying to change that will do nothing else but make her unhappy. This is why many women are compulsive shoppers, and it’s also why they feel offended when you’re honestly telling them they got fat, on their insistences.
Clearly, you don’t have to treat her as if she was intellectually crippled or incapable of understanding. However, when you need to take an important decision, just let her know that your rational approach is the best.
She’ll always tend to make the decision that seems the most correct from an emotional perspective. The solution which she most empathizes with. That’s going to be her choice 9/10 cases. Most of the times, the emotional approach is not the right decision.
Why do you want to understand a woman?
You need to ask yourself this when you want to understand a woman. Why do you want that in the first place? Is it to enrich your relationship? Simple enough, you only need to be affectionate, pretend to listen to her, and express your love as clear as possible.
The rest is history – when it comes to decisions, you just take the initiative and impose your will. Most probably, you believe that a relationship needs to be equal and reciprocal, that you need to consult each other.
That’s what most men think in the beginning. With time, though, you’ll notice that the situation is quite different. Once you get to understand a woman and rationally predict her movements, the old approach will become obsolete and inefficient. Her appeal to emotion is, most of the times, erroneous or inefficacious because it doesn’t take the whole picture into account.
This isn’t necessarily related to the differences between men and women. Rather, it’s related to the discourse principles. The appeal to emotion consists of pure emotional reasoning, pushing aside the rational, logical, and reasonable argumentation. Hence, it’s not veridical or practical.
Femininity has its natural traits
Women are unique in their own way. They are emotional and sensitive. That’s a natural state, and no one can change this. The same goes with men who are more rational, realistic, and practical. Women have specific emotional predilections that they can’t repress.
They rely a lot on intuition and instincts when making decisions. You should know this by now. The moment when you realize how a woman functions, thinks, and does things, is the moment when you start deducing the overall personality make-up of women.
In order to understand a woman, you need to understand how she thinks, which isn’t as hard as it appears. She thinks intuitively, based on emotional predilections, and all this offers her all she needs to make decisions on the fly. Immediate gratification is the most important principle of the feminine mindset. Once you understand that, you’ll understand women.
Nothing is simpler. Become aware that a woman will almost always choose what she’ll bring her immediate benefits, and you’ll find the key to decrypt the feminine intellect. You only need to use this information however you see fit. It depends on what you want to achieve.
The satisfaction of all desires doesn’t solve anything
Many men believe that only by satisfying all her desires will a woman be happy. That might be true. If it weren’t false, that is. This is because a woman’s appetite keeps on getting bigger, and it has the tendency to push aside all material possibilities, all realistic and pragmatic implications.
Moreover, a woman will eventually become bored by a spineless man who poses for a doormat following orders all the time. Actually, contrary to all expectations, satisfying a woman’s each and every desire does nothing but distance her eventually. This is because such a man lacks the masculinity and individualism that attract a woman in the first place.
