HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN
With a lot of courage and initiative
You often hear men saying that they simply didn’t have the guts to approach a woman. Or a woman saying that the guy she was eyeing didn’t have the courage to approach her. Why? Simple enough, because a beautiful woman is intimidating to most men.
This is because a positive quality is quickly associated with other positive qualities in a chain reaction, even if completely unjustifiable. This psychological effect (halo effect) determines the state of fear and anxiety that men have when it comes to beautiful women. More than this, an uncertain man who can’t discipline himself will be much more scared of a woman than a dominant and confident man.
So don’t discourage yourself. Instead, take control of the situation, take the initiative, and talk to her. I guarantee you that you’ll have a huge advance when compared to all other men who simply aren’t capable of even approaching her. Maybe you’re not the most talkative or charming bloke, so the chances of dazzling her aren’t that great. But compared to all the others who won’t even approach her, and whose chances of conquering her are null and void, you have an obvious advantage.
A woman is always attracted to a man’s masculinity and courage. Both biologically and psychologically speaking, a woman is built to appreciate and unconsciously be attracted to these dominant traits in a man. Strength of character, self-mastery, self-confidence, but also the determination to achieve one’s own goals and desires, these traits grant attractiveness and desirability to a man.
Most of the times, it’s enough to start a conversation and come up with a few topics. The discussion will keep on going without any further inputs on your part. You can quickly realize if a woman is interested in you simply by looking at her attitude and behavior towards you. So, you don’t have to waste your time if she’s not reacting at all.
You don’t always have to agree with them
Contrary to most men’s opinions, you don’t always have to agree with a woman in order to get her attention or appreciation. It’s actually quite the opposite. Instead of winning her, you’ll transmit the idea that you don’t have a personality or that you don’t own your opinions. Therefore, a weak man with no strength of character. Just the opposite of the ideal that most women are looking for unconsciously.
Beyond this, it would be an attack on your dignity and self-respect to pretend that you agree with her when you have different opinions. Respect yourself and say what you think, if you have different ideas. The world will respect you more in exchange, especially a woman who knows how to appreciate honesty.
Show them that you are your own person, that you respect your dignity and principles, and that you aren’t a simple mopping carpet that only wants to please everyone. The type of weak man that only seeks to conform to the standards, avoid the spotlight because he lacks even the most basic concept of self-esteem, that type of man isn’t exactly the man woman want.
Although you come across many such human invertebrates who consider that they’re owned half of the world’s riches just for pleasing everyone they meet, you quickly notice that they’re eaten by envy and unhappiness. Especially when it comes to romance. This is because, contrary to popular belief, most women aren’t looking for someone who can please them unconditionally like a robot. They might say this but, once they actually met such a man, they’ll quickly change their tune.
Of course, we’re not talking about the women who are completely hedonistic or those incapable of learning their true nature. We’re talking about the women who can figure out, eventually, that love, closeness to a man, and intimacy are much more important than mere materialism. And this type of woman is looking for a masculine and self-confident man, not someone who can give her everything on a platter.
Act naturally and women will approach you
It sounds so simple, doesn’t it? Actually, it’s a very real truth. You actually only have to be yourself, to say what you think, to do what you feel like doing, and to act naturally wherever you are. Whoever is into you will initiate contact, they will approach you, no two-ways about it. Similarly, if you like a woman, walk towards her, spark up a conversation, and be direct. No beating around the bush or cheapskate compliments.
In other words, you should simply tell her that you want to get to know her better, that you can to take her out sometimes. And that’s pretty much everything. This overly-simplistic and underestimated tactic is overly-simplistic and underestimated. But it works wonders. It’s the most direct, efficient, and productive way to talk to a woman. You don’t need any expensive gifts, cringy compliments or intellectual acrobatics to conquer a woman.
A man doesn’t have to do anything out of the ordinary in order to be noticed by a woman. Just being himself is enough. 9 cases out of 10, a woman will initiate contact one way or another. This is because their brain functions on 90% emotion and 10% reason. So, the chances that she’ll approach you because she can’t resist the temptation are much higher in her case than in yours. So you only have to be patient and observant.
In the end, you will most probably start noticing more and more women who are eyeing you sweetly. Many of them initiate conversations. Some of them find justifications to be near you, to interact with you more and more, to be a part of your routine and to get to know you better. These markers or physical and romantic attraction are 99% accurate, and there’s nothing you need to do other than keeping an eye out of them.
Take note of how women act near you, how they interact with you, and how you can incite their imagination. Your success with women will spread further than simply talking to them.
