HOW TO TALK TO A WOMAN
You have nothing to prove
As a man, you need to understand that you don’t have to prove anything to a woman in order to make your presence known. You don’t have to act impulsively or mimic your interests toward certain things in order to attract a woman. All you have to do is act naturally, and talk to her but there’s a catch – keep your calm while doing this. An important piece of advice would be to prevent your emotions from taking over because women don’t like emotional men.
Romantic idealisms belong to women, most of the times. As a man, you must be confident in yourself, and confident in your strong personality. As long as you have a strong character, a rational attitude, and you are a reasonable person, many women will feel attracted to you. The more confident and courageous you are in taking the initiative, the more you will impress a woman.
You don’t have to buy her expensive gifts to win her over. I don’t think you’d like to find out that your woman only stays with you because you can entertain her materialistic drives. The moment you’ll stop doing that is the moment she’ll leave you for someone who can do that. Perhaps someone with a more muscular third member, as well.
Be dignified and confident
If you want to speak to a woman, you need to do the following things:
- Clarify your intentions – you don’t want to be her best friend but her romantic partner
- Trust yourself – act dignified, be serious, and don’t do bad or sexual jokes
- Learn to control your emotions, and be reasonable – love at first sight is a superficial bullshit
- Be honest, natural, and direct – don’t try to pretend to be someone you’re not in order to impress her
- Don’t be desperate – if she says no, keep your calm and dignity, and don’t start begging
As long as you can do these things, you have a good chance of taking out a woman on a date, and making a good impression. You see, most women are naturally attracted by masculine, rational men who have a compelling strong character and self-confidence. If you can project this image to her, then you’ll distinguish yourself from all the raggedy chumps who want to impress her by being thuggish and sexual.
Just go to her and initiate a conversation but don’t beat around the bush before you get down to the key subject. Better yet, be direct from the very beginning, and say what you want to say, but keep your dignity and self-confidence intact while doing it. Don’t be arrogant, snobbish, and don’t insult her. Women tend to dislike it when men insult them. Just saying.
Keep your expectations realistic
What do I mean by that? Simple, don’t expect her to take the initiative because women almost never do that, and no one expects them to in the first place. And, if she does, then you need to realize that you’ve just failed one of your primary responsibilities as a man. If you want to speak to a man, you go to her and do just that, without thinking of the consequences. This is how a masculine and confident man acts.
Moreover, you need to keep your expectations realistic when it comes to interacting with women you’ve barely met. Even if you think she’s the woman of your dreams, don’t tell her that hoping that she’ll jump in your arms. She’ll sooner think it’s weird and unattractive, desperate even, because it’s not reasonable to think that about someone you’ve just met.
So, keep your emotions under control, and don’t expect her to have an exaggerated reaction or to suck you off then and there. If she says no, take the hit like a man, and don’t get out of your comfort zone. Be strong, calm, and respect your dignity. The other way around is just as true – don’t think that she’ll refuse you from the very start, just because you think you’re unattractive or uninteresting. Most of the times, our own perceptions about ourselves are wrong and unreal.
Win her over through courage and steadfastness
If you’re the type who respects women and never does something they might not like, then you’re going to lose big time. You have no idea how perverse or peppered a woman’s mind can be, even more so than men’s sometimes. A woman doesn’t want to be respected by a man – she wants to feel dominated and loved.
She wants you to know you’re a capable man who can protect her from dangers, take care of her, and dominate her accordingly. Women love the feeling that a masculine and strong man gives them, the type who doesn’t take shit from anyone, not even women. Sometimes, you need to do things that appear to be invasive like kissing her unexpectedly on a first or second date.
It might be something you haven’t tried before and you might get it wrong but didn’t we all make mistakes in the beginning? No one was born with experience, and we all had to learn from our mistakes. All that matters is that you trust yourself, maintain your expectations realistic, and overcome your failures with an easy attitude. Be perseverant, try to be better, more charismatic, and more convincing. With a woman, you need to be dominative, confident, and compelling in what you do and say.
Try to apply these principles, and take on the attitude of a masculine and compelling man. I guarantee that all women you’ll meet will notice you from the very beginning, and you’ll make a great impression on them. All you have to do is take the initiative, and show them that, when you want something, you take it. You don’t need anyone’s confirmation to take what is yours. Like I said, women love this attitude coming from a man. It tells them you’re more than able to handle life, and that you’re capable of taking care of them as well.
