HOW TO REVIVE A DEAD RELATIONSHIP

How to spark the flames of your relationship?

I’m speaking to men now because, in general, most conflicts are caused by an unhappy woman. You, as a man, take notice of some irregularities in your relationship. She’s starting to get cold and you don’t want that.

The first thing you should do is find out what the problem is, more specifically. Either she’s not content with the amount of dick she’s getting, or how you’re administering it, either you’re not tender enough, or she notices you’re disinterested in her daily problems. There are plenty of reasons for why a woman would start getting cold and lose her interest in a relationship.

So, test things out, see where it all started. You can do that simply by asking her, having a mature conversation. Perhaps that’s where the crux of the issue resides, the lack of communication and the fact that men are usually more reserved and quiet.

Here’s some advice that you can follow in order to make sure your woman is happy and content.

Keep calm and be patient with her

Of course, it’s kind of hard to keep calm when she has a verbal diarrhea, and you’re starting to lose your patience. All you wanted was some peace and quiet, some alone time, just to regain your energy and relax for a little. And she came along fucking it all up. Well, you should know that this isn’t anything unique at all. On the contrary, it’s actually pretty casual. You don’t need to start throwing fists and throw a tantrum.

Take it easy, tell her that you have something to do and you don’t want to be disturbed. Or if you have to listen to her, seeing as though you aren’t visible doing anything (emphasis on visibly), mind your own business and throw in a few exclamations from time to time, just so she can see you’re paying attention. Generally, she’ll be content with this, considering that when she starts going on with her feminine subjects, your brain turns to mush instantly.

Women want to be listened to. If they’re faced with some critical problems that require attention, even though that might be the breaking of a nail or that she couldn’t find the right-colored shoes to match her dress, just listen to her. Be receptive – this matters a lot for a woman. She doesn’t necessarily want you to state your opinion or find a solution because, most times, she realizes you don’t know shit about it or you couldn’t care less. She just wants you to empathize.

Which, if you’re not a complete sociopath, is completely achievable.

Take her out to town from time to time

Spice things up in your relationship. You probably heard this countless of times. However, it’s the naked truth. Eventually, a relationship will turn into a routine. It’s inevitable, really. Not all of us are able to go on journey sprees around the world 3 times a month.

But to soften up the impact of routine and avoid boredom, especially if your woman can’t sit still, take her out now and then. Go to the movies, take her to a romantic evening at a restaurant. And, if all else fails, desperate measures must be taken – take her shopping.

I guarantee that this will change your relationship for the better. It means that your woman is happy, you’re happy that she’s happy, and everything is good in the world. Regardless of the incessant myths about men and women, as a man, you do want your woman to be satisfied and content with her life. And with you.

So give her reasons to be happy. Surprise her from time to time with gestures of affection, showing her that you care. There’s no need for grand and expensive presents. The small things are more than enough, most of the times.

Take care of yourself

Essentially, your woman will appreciate you more if she sees you concerned about looking good, in keeping your body in top shape. So get rid of that beer-belly, take your mummified feet for a walk, and while we’re here, shave your balls more often as well.

Go to the gym and put on some muscles. There’s no need to turn into an Adonis or change your name to Hulk, but a slight delineation of your muscles isn’t that hard to achieve. That is, if you don’t want to come back home one day and find your woman hanging from the better-looking body of your neighbor. Who might also have a bigger cock as well. The neighbor, not your woman.

Everything will change if she sees you’re interested in looking good. She’ll no longer be embarrassed with you, and she’ll even be proud of her man when going out. Behave like a real man and take care of yourself. This matters a lot.

Be more tender in bed

In other words, be mindful of her wishes, pay attention to her satisfaction and what arouses her. Don’t just rush ahead like a famished wolf who wants to gorge himself as fast possible. Just because you fuck her for a few minutes ecstatically doesn’t mean she’s feeling the same.

Women need a quality prelude before they get to sex. Therefore, you need to be tender, careful, attentive to her needs, meticulous, knowledgeable about the female body, and craving for sex. The female orgasm is harder to achieve because the stimulation is more complex. They have more erogenous parts on their body that need stimulation.

Men only have one which they stimulate in just a few ways. No need for any preparations or prelude. As long as there’s arousal and stimulation in the form of blowjobs, hand-jobs or cock-to-pussy action, the orgasm isn’t far away either.

You don’t need to rush things out. First, make sure that she’s also satisfied and content with the sex. As I said, men will reach an orgasm faster than women, much faster, and this means that you’ll have to keep on pleasing her even after you paint the walls white.

Show her that you care about her happiness and satisfaction, that you want to please her and that you pay attention to her needs. She’ll love you even more, and your relationship will get back right on track.