HOW TO REVIVE A DEAD MARRIAGE
Divorce has become a routine
I never quite understood the way people get married with their girlfriend after a few months or even weeks of relationship. Even more, I’ve heard about fucktards who have taken the vows with their chosen one after a few days of getting to know each other. Only to divorce a few months later. Which is anything but a surprise, really.
Look at Hollywood, the land of debauchery and idiocy. The actors that marry, divorce, remarry, divorce again, and the cycle seems to never end. Just like stupidity seems infinite as well. People don’t realize that a marriage means committing for an entire life. The person that you’ll step on the altar with? Yeah, you have to know him or her pretty well. And this is impossible to achieve in just a few months.
Even less so in a few weeks or days. Putting this aside, let’s say that you’ve made the right choice. You were already in a relationship with the woman you love when you decided to marry. Everything was perfect for the first few years, but then it all went to shit. You somehow get the impression that the magic which had kept your relationship alive is now dead.
And it is that moment when the relationship is on its last breaths that divorce seems like the only viable option. Obviously, there are a few things that you can do to prevent this. We can name a few:
The need for communication
I know that many consider sex as being the foundation of a happy marriage. Which can’t be further from the truth. Sex is just an instinctual craving. Which lasts for a few dozen minutes. The other portion of a relationship is reserved for everything in-between, and that’s where all the problems start to appear for the most part.
Most dysfunctional relationships all have in common one cancerous downside – the lack of communication. Learn to talk to your partner more, to clarify any problem you might have, and to reach a consensus. Ignoring these issues doesn’t mean they go away. It means you’re ignoring them, is all. And it also means that you won’t take any measures to prevent or solve them
Pro tip: focus on communication with your partner. Delve into the heart of the problems, the things that you wrack your brains about but can’t voice. When it comes to building a long-lasting relationship, communication is key. The key towards happiness, that is.
Work more on your sex game
You know how romance movies portray sex as something magical and glamorous, the core of any fairytale story ever? That’s not how reality works, obviously. And still, it wouldn’t do you bad to put some work in this area. To get better at this and that…
More often than not, marriage brings about problems which seem to have appeared out of the blue, no warnings and all that. You see your woman constantly irritated, discontent, with arguments falling out of the fucking sky, as the questions keeps popping to your head – “What the fuck is it now, woman?”. You don’t realize that everything starts from you not fucking her the right way.
I’ve said it before, but I won’t shy away from saying it again – fucking is an art. You need to understand that for good sex is not nearly enough to blow apart those lower lips with your cock. Try to spice things up a little. Find out what she likes and surprise her. And be subtle. Make her believe that you really care about her happiness. And I guarantee that things will take a turn for the better.
Be manlier
It may seem like an odd suggestion, but it’s backed up by loads of scientific articles, so it’s extremely viable. Women prefer men who reek of testosterone, initiative, and self-confidence. Men who take care of them, who know what they want, and who act in away befitting…. real men. And you can start by lifting some weights.
Otherwise, you can also take on a form of martial arts or other close contact sport. You’ll not only build up your body and get rid of that abominable beer-belly, but you’ll also naturally rise your testosterone level. And this comes together with more self-confidence, more initiative when it comes to taking risks, and a healthy dose of sexual appeal.
If you grow mold sitting on the couch, watching movies and football matches, or playing video games, she’ll eventually start looking for someone else to satisfy her. I understand the notions of fidelity and honor, but women are also driven by other principles, and many of these principles are biological in nature. Become a real man and I guarantee you she’ll take notice of it.
Spice things up in your relationship
Perhaps it’s been a long time since you went out into town. One of the well-known arch-nemeses of any functional relationship is routine. It’s when routine makes its appearance that you know disaster is soon to follow. One of the solutions would be to bring some variety in the relationship from time to time.
Take her bowling and a romantic dinner. Or take her to the movies. You can also go on a vacation to an exotic location. Something that shatters the routine, basically. You don’t even have to do it that often. Just often enough to remind her what a great and caring husband you are. You’d be amazed to find out how easy women can be satisfied, if you know what makes them tick.
In many situations, it’s enough just to wash the dishes for her. Or make her a coffee and breakfast in the morning, before she wakes up. The little things that catch her by surprise, these will stimulate her emotionally.
This is to say that it’s not difficult to keep your marriage alive and kicking, as long as you know what to do, and you give it your best. After all, you’ll live alongside that woman for the rest of your life. You should make sure that she’s happy and content. It won’t be long until the rewards show up as well.
