HOW TO PLEASE YOUR WOMAN
No selfishness and more cuddling
First off, the one thing you should think about when this question pops into your mind is this: are you takin care of her like you should? I’m talking about being sex here, obviously. Women perceive it in a manner very different to us men, and they experience it quite differently as well.
As a man, you just get down to business, ram you cock in her pussy and start pounding until you blow your load. Done deal, that’s it, see you next time! That’s how it goes down most of the time, in many relationships. And then she leaves. Fucking amazing, this was the problem, not enough dedication and thoughtfulness. Who would have thought?
Yeah, you should learn to think about her needs and desires as well, spend some time in polishing your foreplay skills, being tender and sensual, preparing her for what’s to come. This will please her in ways you can’t even imagine. It’s compared to having an orgasm, a well-done foreplay that is. Cuddle, kiss, take it slowly just how she likes it, and you won’t regret it later on when she’ll unleash the full arsenal of moves on you.
It’s very easy and simple to just move your hips for 3-5 minutes, nut on her back and leaving it at that. Yeah, she might have an orgasm in the meantime, but when you’re just doing the same thing over and over again with nothing to spice things up, it gets repetitive, boring and even the stimulation goes down a few levels.
You might feel good each and every time, getting to the climax and emptying those balls, but to her, it’s just being selfish and self-centered. So get off your high horses and do something for a change that’ll raise her appreciation for you. I promise, once you actually start thinking about her, she’ll notice right away. Problems eliminated just like that, through just a bit of thoughtful actions.
One for her and a ton for you
We’re talking about orgasms here, what else? I’m saying that while you’re going to empty your balls 5-6 times, she’ll barely reach one, if that were the case. If you know what you’re doing, chances are she’ll be satisfied in the end. But if you’re a novice or don’t really much care whether she’s feeling good or not, then she’s going to bleed you dry of every ounce of energy until she does have an orgasm.
Actually, women reach an orgasm way harder than a man does, and this has been studied plenty of times. The conclusion is that there are multiple factors involved, not just her pussy. Simply by ramming it in and out continuously, you won’t make very good progress in this sense.
Prepare the terrain by stimulating her erogenous zones. Fondle her breasts, touch her neckline, hold her hips, and otherwise get down on that sweet pussy like the hungry wolf that you are. Oral sex does a great job in laying all the cards on the table. By the time you’re done, she’s going to be dying to fuck you right then and there. Wet as she can get, don’t waste anymore time and just screw her brains out.
Be intelligent and creative as you change positions to spice things up and increase the odds of her feeling even more pleasure. After all, it’s something to be proud of, knowing how to satisfy your woman perfectly, what to do and how to do it in order to get her to that fantastic tingling in her body.
A piece of advice – one of the best positions for a woman to be in is on top. That way, she can control the thrusts and speed of the pushes which means that she’s going to have an easier time reaching an orgasm. Just let her do all the work and admire that perfect body dancing on your crotch. Splendid view, right? Wait until she actually reaches the climax. Now that’s a sight to see!
Be creative and use your brains
This is to say that you should never get set into a routine where you both just know how it’s going to play out, from start to finish. This kills the pleasure, the unexpected element, all the surprises and the stimulation just dulls with time. You may still have orgasms, but she’s likely going to get fewer and fewer.
Wonder why she’s been acting strange and cold for the last few weeks? Because she has to finish the job herself after you abandon the boat midway or fail to stimulate her enough. Lack of interest or knowledge, it’s not something that you want to happen in your relationship. If you think this is the case, start diversifying, asking her what she likes, and really take care of her.
Be thoughtful and tender, use your hands more. By now, you should know exactly what turns her on, what spots she likes you to touch, and what gets her off. So do that without hesitation. Don’t expect her to do all the job. As a man, you already had an erection the moment you saw her naked. As for her, it’s continuous build-up of stimulation. A massage would work out wonders.
After the much-appreciated foreplay, when you get down to business, try doing something new or using a different approach than last time. Surprise her with new techniques. Maybe nibble on her nipples while you stick a finger in her pussy or even better, work your way down there slowly. Then, give her the greatest orgasm she’ll ever have, just to warm up the atmosphere for the oncoming action.
You have to admit, it does get you off seeing her satisfied and moaning with pleasure, so why not hit two birds with one stone? Making her happy and you filled with pride and fulfillment that you made your woman go through peak pleasure and satisfaction.
This is how you please a woman, you take it slowly and with patience. Be thoughtful and step up the game with your foreplay. I can’t understate its importance.
