HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY
Prove your love
A woman needs to know every moment of the day that you love and care about her. Moreover, she wants you to prove it, say it, and insist on it constantly. But I’m not going to have you do that because it’s not exactly easy for a man to do it. A man isn’t as sentimental or emotional as a woman. Moreover, no one wants an emotional man. Those who say that women love understanding and emotional men who respect them are eating shit.
Women don’t want emotional and sensitive men who eclipse their own femininity. That’s the women’s job, to be emotional and sentimental. Men should have a different approach to life, and follow different existential principles. Masculinity, self-confidence, competitiveness, these are the principles that a man should develop during his life.
Then, how do you make a woman happy? The most important thing is that she knows you love her, that you can protect her from anything bad in the world. A woman needs affection and a sense of safety. She wants to know that the man beside her can protect and take care of her. She wants someone who can make decisions in her place because she’d prefer not taking on so many responsibilities. A woman is happy when she finds such a man, and when she gives birth to children.
Listen to what she says
Few things compare to this. Your woman wants to know you’re listening to her, that you care about what she’s saying. This somehow shows her that you love and care about her, even if you already prove that in a thousand other, more meaningful ways. But, none of these things match up to you listening to her, apparently. So, you’re at an impasse – you aren’t actually going to actively listen to all the random things she’s saying, right?
Sure you’ll have to listen to her. It’s just you don’t have to allocate too many brain cells in the process. Just listen, nod, throw a couple of interjections now and then, and there you go, your woman’s happy. Pretend you’re interested, that’s my point. Why not be honest – you don’t give a flying fuck about what she’s been up to with her girlfriends in the weekend. Or what type of moisturizing cream she wants to buy.
However, she needs to know you care about her, that you’re interested in what she’s saying. You’ll do exactly that – appear interested in what she’s saying. I’m not saying you should actively participate in those conversations or waste your time asking her questions all the time. We both know it’s a waste of time and you’d rather do something else with your time.
Take her out into town
Now and then, you need to show goodwill and please her, whether she wants to buy a new pair of shoes or if she wants to go out into town. All women want to look pretty, for instance. You can buy her a handbag or a new pair of shoes. Better yet, give her money so she can do that, because you probably have no idea what you should buy her. It would be a waste of time to go shopping with her, anyway.
If it’s something I learned the hard way in life it’s that you should never go shopping with a woman. And when I say never, I actually mean absolutely never. Do yourself a favor and stay home – jerk off, stare at the ceiling, start cooking, just don’t go shopping with her. It would be much easier to start building a house than go through the torment of shopping with a woman. Once you’ve unknowingly accepted such an offer, you’re heading straight to a hell of your own making.
The ideal solution is to give her the money she needs, and send her shopping alone. Or alongside that friend you had no idea existed, and you didn’t even care about. Anyway, this will make her happy, and if your woman is happy, you’re happy. Otherwise, you won’t like her when she’s down and pouting. This is one of the reasons, just so you know.
Take care of yourself
As a man, you have your own dignity and principles that you should uphold. Your body is like a sanctuary, and you should treat it as such. If not for you, at least for the appreciation of the woman beside you. She’ll like you much more when you’re fit and you look good, than when you have a beer belly and you’re unshaven, for instance. Hygiene matters a lot in this sense, about 80%, actually. Make sure you smell nice, dress well, and look good.
This way, she’ll feel good with a good-looking man beside her. Not only will she like you emotionally but she’ll be much more attracted to you sexually. For a woman, the way you present and behave yourself matters a lot because it shows your self-respect and respect for her as well. Just as we, men, care about the way our women look like. They must maintain their beauty and splendor, dress well, and dazzle the world with their gorgeous appearance.
Just as she can knows how to look good, we should take care of ourselves in the same way. I’m not saying we should groom as obsessively as women but make sure you’re clean-shaven and that you don’t stink, at the very least. Most of the time, the unpleasant bodily odor tends to not make such a good impression with people. Negligence and laziness are two of the greatest issues that men face up against once they get into a relationship.
If they maintain this attitude of negligence toward themselves, it’ll lead to a premature termination of the relationship. If you want your woman to be attracted to you and to be happy, groom yourself, and mind your appearance. If you look good, she’ll look good, and she’ll be happy to know that you care about her feelings. She’ll be much more inclined to sleep with you, for instance. If that’s a great incentive for you, then use it.
