HOW TO KEEP A TIGHT LEASH ON YOUR WOMAN
Your woman will take advantage if given the opportunity
How many times have you heard about stories where a man was too permissive and tolerant, and his woman would manipulate him? Perhaps you’ve seen it in person – she would even mock him in certain cases. This happens because a man has a weak enough character and he’s too permissive. Women tend to take advantage if you let it slide for too long. If you don’t keep her in a tight leash, you’ll soon have to deal with an angry monster making your life a living hell.
Firstly, all women tend to have something in common. Far from being a generalization, the fact that all women tend to be manipulative is an undying truth. If you show them you’re weak or vulnerable, many of them will use that opportunity to pool the wool over your eyes. In other words, it’s your own fault if a woman gets used to mocking you. If you’d know how to communicate with her and establish a few limits, these would be non-problems.
A relationship is based on mutual understanding and communication from both partners. Many times, a woman is understanding, reasonable, and less conflicting. It depends on the personality and emotional predispositions, really. However, most of the time, you’re dealing with impulsive, stubborn and unreasonable beings that need to be tamed. Until you tame them, the relationship’s future remains uncertain.
Be imposing and dominative
The male nature is determined by a couple of essential traits that can’t be replaced by anything else:
- Aggressiveness
- Competitiveness
- A strong character
- Ambition and perseverance
- A strong will
- Dignity
A man must never hesitate in taking decisions, no matter how insignificant or important they may be. Of course, everything must be reasoned out beforehand, in order to foresee any changing future circumstances. Because a man is much more rational and pragmatic than a woman, the decisions he takes are more likely to be viable, correct, and optimized for the actual situation. A man’s analytic powers of perception are much stronger in a man’s case.
That’s why every decision you take in a relationship must be imposed, because you’re completely sure of its validity. If a woman doesn’t see where you’re coming from, then you have to ignore her and keep going. If the result is favorable, then you’ve just proven to yourself and her that your decision was a good one. You don’t have to let yourself be distracted by her irrational and emotional struggles – that’s pretty much it.
This doesn’t mean that you have stand out alone in a relationship without creating a communication bridge to your partner. Communication is a foundational pylon for any relationship, after all. However, once your woman’s limits of understanding are overwhelmed, you have to take over completely, whether she likes it or not. It’s for the best, after all. The idea is that some women can’t perceive their own weaknesses, so they start overestimating themselves.
Be understanding and reasonable
Many relationships fall apart because the partners are unreasonable toward any conflicting situation. Most of the time, women tend to do this. However, this doesn’t mean that alpha males are completely reasonable and understanding. Quite the opposite – their aggressiveness and powerful character reflect their rigidness and stubbornness. A man can trust himself blindly, so much so that he refuses any kind of critiques, no matter how constructive. Any discussion becomes useless because he rejects any opinion different to his.
A woman functions differently than a man. Sometimes, there’s no need to be imposing on a dominative level, because your partner is understanding and she listens to you. All you have to do is show your appreciation to how she behaves, and be understanding. Just because you’re more rational and pragmatic than she is doesn’t mean you should become arrogant and vain. In a relationship, both partners share the same goals and work together to attain them.
A woman will always tend to follow your example. If you’re conflicting, unreasonable, and irritable, what do you think’s going to happen? Is she going to remain impassible and will be the voice of kindness all the time? Everyone has a limit, and once you touch upon her reverse scales, a shitstorm will soon appear. Keep calm, and don’t forget to encourage her when she’s depressed – be the person she can rely on! This is what all women want from their partners.
Give her affection and love
If a man functions on reason and rationality, then a woman is fueled by emotions, feelings, and the need for affection. Without love and affection, woman fade away quickly, because they lose their vitality and happiness. She can’t survive without the comfort of having someone close to her, taking care of her, and loving her. She needs security, affection, and strong emotions. In a relationship, she’ll expect you to be someone she can rely on.
If you don’t know how to treat your own partner, then don’t be surprised when you’ll find her in another man’s arms. After all, if she can’t satisfy her needs with you, she’s going to look for someone else to replace you with. Alongside you, she can’t find happiness, and breaking up with you would be too tragic. So, she’s content with cheating on you because that’s the only alternative possible.
Most of the time, when a woman cheats, it’s because her partner is giving her ample reasons to do so. Either he’s not good enough in bed or he’s not masculine enough, or he has no future prospects to speak of. A weak and emotional man who doesn’t know how to keep a tight leash on his woman will soon face the cruel reality. On the one hand, you have to be understanding, reasonable, and affectionate to your woman. On the other hand, you need to know how to be imposing and also dominative when needed. It depends on what kind of partner you have, and how she treats most situations. If she’s alright, then you can be the same.
