HOW TO GAIN A WOMAN'S APPRECIATION
An undying dilemma
I am fairly sure that many of us have had, at some point, periods of time when we asked ourselves what exactly we can to do let her know we appreciate her. Or, in any case, how to make your interest and affection felt to an exponent of the female species.
Before all this, you need to understand one thing – don’t treat a woman like you would your friends. And under no circumstances should you pretend to be disinterested or ignore her intentionally in the hope what she’ll be mesmerized by your lone-wolf attitude. This is just a myth that needs to be buried six-feet under. Generally speaking, not paying attention to a woman won’t make her appreciate you more. What a shocker!
What do I mean by avoiding to treat her as you would your friends? It’s simple – a woman wants to feel understood, listened to, protected, and, most importantly, loved. In other words, don’t be a senseless jerk that cuts short any attempt at communication if she makes her need for affection known. This is the feminine nature. You either abide by these rules, or no woman will ever stay with you for more than a few seconds.
So, let’s go over the few steps you need to take in order to gain a woman’s appreciation.
Listen to what she’s saying!
One of the most important things you need to do when interacting with a woman is really listen to her. Listen to her when she’s talking about her friend whom you don’t even know the name of, listen to her when she’s telling you about her day, even though you couldn’t give less fucks, and you only want to enjoy your free time. Occasionally, throw some exclamations and interjections her way, just so that she can see you’re listening to her.
Even the smallest indicator of attention matters a lot as long as she notices it. You should never be completely disinterested, or worse, be obvious about the sharp feeling of pain in your ass about what she’s yammering about. If you actually don’t care, that is. Many times, you can actually empathize with her, and maybe you even feel the need to support or make her feel better.
And your balls won’t fall off if you throw some words of affection her way. Or if you embrace her from time to time. Women like these gestures more than you’d care to know. They have an instantaneous effect of calming them, and they’ll show them that you care about them. It’s very important that a woman starts seeing you as a protector, someone behind whom she can cower when danger comes.
Be natural, masculine, and be confident
I believe nothing gains a woman’s attention and appreciation more than a man who’s sure of himself, confident in his own strengths, in what he says and does. This attitude shows them that they can rely on you when it comes to difficult situations of any kind. And, putting aside any other myth, women, for the most part, want a masculine and virile man. They even crave for a small dose of aggression.
Be straightforward and don’t be shy to make your desires and thoughts known. Don’t let yourself be stopped by fears or inhibitions. As soon as you start hesitating and beat around the bush, a woman will notice it straight away. And, although it is often said that some women like shy and nerdy guys who listen to their every whim and who are there to empathize with them, this is nothing but a lie. A big, fat lie.
The vast majority of women are instinctually and biologically attracted to alpha males. The strong and ferocious males that emanate masculinity and virility, unleashing vitality without fear. This makes them wet, and it’s also what makes them start fantasizing about wild sex with such a male.
Be mindful of her sexual needs
Take the initiative when it comes to sex, by the way. Or the foreplay, if you really want to show your appreciation and attention to her needs. Prelude is even more important than sex for a woman because that’s where you demonstrate your care and interest in her satisfaction. Moreover, a woman’s physiognomy requires prelude.
Us men, we are more than satisfied with pure, raw sex, with moving our hips for a few minutes there, too few, most of the times. Women, on the other hand, they are different. Sex is nothing but a mere component for them, one that needs to be introduced by way of prelude. Cuddling, passionate kisses, caressing, stuff like that.
This is because, unlike men who are already ready for action once they see a pair of dangling, naked tits, women first need to be aroused. And this takes time, attention, the foreplay stage, that is. The female arousing system works differently than with men.
Don’t just agree to everything she says
This doesn’t prove anything but the fact that you’re weak, submissive, and not masculine enough. It doesn’t prove that you’re a virile and strong man, which is what most women want. If you want her to appreciate and want you, behave as such. Be authoritative and imposing if need be.
Because this is what a masculine and strong man behaves like. He doesn’t let his pride and self-image be muddied by anyone. Not even his own woman. Obviously, I’m not saying you should start flinging fists as soon as she starts an argument or tries to take you down, metaphorically speaking.
If you have to use physical strength and violence to outsmart and overpower her in a verbal debate, then you prove nothing other than your intellectual inferiority and lack of restraint. In any case, it shows you are incapable and a weak man.
This is pretty much everything you need to know about how you can gain a woman’s attention and appreciation. How you use this information is up to you. Best of luck to you!
