HOW TO CAPITALIZE ON YOUR MASCULINITY
Establish a main goal
If your goal is to conquer a woman, then focus all your efforts in that direction. Dig all the information related to your romantic interest, and find out what she likes and doesn’t like. The next step is devising an attack strategy. In essence, you need to count all your weapons and see if you’ve got what it takes to succeed. Are you self-confident enough to talk to her? What are you going to talk to her about, and most importantly, how will you keep the interest alive?
As a man, things aren’t as complicated as they appear. The most important perk you have in romanticism is your own masculinity. Women are driven crazy about a self-confident man who can remain calm in critical situations. If you have a stable and strong personality, she’s going to be into you. What do you think, can you check these boxes? Knowing how useful self-confidence and a strong personality can be, will you underestimate your most deadly weapons? You only want to attract her attention, to flip open her deepest layers and conquer her in her entirety, after all.
Once you establish a precise goal and you make an inventory of your arsenal, you’re ready to attack. I suggest the following strategies to impress a woman:
- Hold yourself accountable to your actions and never hesitate
- Be direct, concise, and don’t leave anything for interpretation
- Act in a masculine and steadfast way
- Don’t ignore your dignity – it’s your most prized possession
- Give her the attention she deserves
- Avoid confusing her – tell her you want more than a friendship
- Take the initiative and don’t be afraid of a refusal
- If she refuses, act tactfully and move on
Keep the spark alive
Once you get her interest, a woman wants to know if you’ve been pretending all this time. So, you only have to act naturally and do what you did before, when you attracted her. If it was your active, dynamic, and innovative personality that got her attention, give her a double dose of adrenaline. Alternatively, if you met her in a formal and academic environment, you don’t have to take any risks. She most probably fell in love with your calm, steadfast, and quiet personality – use that to keep the spark alive.
Reflect over the elements that got her attention and pointed her in your direction. What do you think attracted her to you, and why does she want to get to know you better? If you understand that, the rest is simple. Give her the same treatment like you did before. However, women are pretty unpredictable. She might have given you a chance just to see what else you can do, monkey boy. You got her interest but she’s not entirely sure you’re worth it.
In this situation, I advise you stick with your dignity, and never go beyond it. It’s what makes you a man, after all. Don’t become desperate after her because she doesn’t like desperate men. Instead, you must have a limit yourself. She must prove her worth to you, even more so that you. That’s because you have other alternatives vying for your attention, if you played your cards right.
Don’t overdo it with the gifts
One of the myths of romanticism is that you have to give flowers and give gifts to that special someone. Which is entirely false. It’s not a necessity because women are mostly attracted to your personality and character. You can split open the skies and give her the moon – if your attitude is that of a worm that anyone can step upon, she’s not into you, and I can guarantee that.
Alternatively, you can give gifts only if you believe she’ll deeply appreciate them. However, it must be emotionally significant to her. It won’t work if it’s a simple attempt to impress her. Only give her gifts if you really feel like it. For instance, if you know she’s been looking for a book for some time, try finding it for her. Or if she’s recently lost her pet, buy her a similar one.
Your general attitude must be that of a dignified, steadfast, and stable-minded person. Don’t grovel before her, and don’t act desperately in an attempt to get her attention. Your dignity is more important than that. Don’t ever accept too many compromises just to humor or please her. Like I said, be masculine and dignified – if you dislike something, say something. Even if you risk ruining her mood, fuck it, you matter as well.
Don’t give her too much attention
Perhaps this is a counter-intuitive piece of advice but I’ll tell you why it’s important, despite its unpopularity. Women tend to be manipulative and if they catch you unprepared, they take advantage. The same goes for when you act too affectionate or try to please them at every step of the way. Moreover, if you give them too much attention, they’ll turn into annoying little goblins spearing you into the butt all day long. If you can’t reach a consensus, just give up and pack your bags.
As a man, you must determine her to make efforts to impress you. She must follow you around and be afraid of your refusal. Even if you’re a mellow chap inside, it’s better to foster this illusion. If she’s offended and goes into a full-blown fit for not giving her enough attention – you’re dealing with an immature bitch. In this case, let me remind you of the previous piece of advice – respect your own dignity and don’t compromise your happiness for someone immature. There are many women out there who are much more responsible and understanding than this one.
Either way, you must seek your own happiness, and if you can’t find it because of your current girlfriend, dump her. Assuming you’ve tried anything to reason with her and it didn’t work, it’s case closed. It’s not worth it to consume your patience and gray matter into making peace with Ares’ descendant. She won’t understand. Your masculinity and dignity demand something else.
