HOW TO BRING A RELATIONSHIP BACK TO LIFE
Why did the relationship break off?
A relationship can flicker off for many reasons, but it all boils down to misunderstandings between the partners. In a relationship, both partners have the obligation to contribute to the development of the relationship through effort, time spent together, and dedication. If one of the partners becomes disinterested and cold, the relationship can’t survive for too long. The man might be at fault or the woman, it doesn’t really matter. A woman tends to manifest many more dislikes in a relationship than a man. Between the two manifest misunderstandings and irredeemable conflicts eventually.
If these misunderstandings led to a rupture in the relationship, you most likely think it’s over and that you have no more chances to regain your partner pack. In which case you’re wrong. Dead wrong. Your woman left your side because she wasn’t content with something. Of course, if she was discontent with your entire person overall, then there’s no point in trying to get her back. However, if it’s a specific problem we’re talking about, which you can remedy, then the relationship can be revitalized.
It all comes down do determination and dedication toward your purpose. Are you ready to correct your mistakes or not? Because if you’re only going to pretend you’ve changed and then come back to your normal ways after some time, it’s a disaster. Most likely, the second break-up will be permanent because your woman will no longer trust you or your dedication toward the relationship. So, if you decide you want to revive the relationship, you’d better be completely honest and dedicated to the change.
The problem of inefficient communication
Most of the time, inefficient communication becomes a problem in a relationship. This means that the both partners end up arguing and having interminable arguments. Why does that happen, more specifically? Perhaps this was the reason why the relationship didn’t succeed. When two people have wildly different personalities, one explosive and the other introverted, communication is a hassle. That’s because none of the two can readily accept the other’s way of communicating.
However, that’s precisely the thing – man can change his way of thinking and interacting with others. He or she can adopt a different perspective or be more understanding toward other perspectives. If she’s a bit shy and you can barely make her talk, then you have to be calm and patient. Otherwise, what happens when you become irritated and reproachful? She’ll feel betrayed and even more stifled than before. This communication problem gets worse with time. Alternatively, you need to be more understanding and encourage your partner to talk and express herself.
You need to try to change your ways if you want to repair the relationship. If you want to get your partner back, you need to learn how to reach a compromise when it comes to communication. This is what all relationships revolve around – sets of compromises that both partners have to enforce in order to live peacefully alongside one another. The communication problem is an old one but it has a rather common solution – honest compromise.
Sexual problems in paradise
If it was sex that led to a break-up, then things are even simpler to come around with. Stop being a filthy pig who wants to fuck and spread his seed everywhere, for starters. You just have to realize that a woman functions differently from a man, biologically speaking. Her arousing system is different to yours. As a man, once you see her bubble but, you instantly get an erection and you’re two minutes away from ejaculating on her face.
However, a woman’s biology isn’t that simple. She needs to be brought to that level of arousal by stimulating her erogenous areas. If you start with a total erection, she starts from zero. Obviously, the more qualitative and tender the prelude, the more likely it is that your woman will reach a climax easier and quicker. That’s only true if you manage to deliver a great foreplay with cuddles, kissing, all the tender things you can think of. In one word – romanticism, love toward your woman.
Otherwise, sex becomes one thing for her – a way for you to quench your sexual thirst and fuck her. How about her needs and pleasures, though? What about them? Haste ruins things, after all. If you want to make your woman happy and bring her to the peak of pleasure, then you need to approach sex from a different perspective. Stop thinking less about smashing pussy and more about treating her right, caressing her thighs and bringing her pleasure. That would be a start.
Cooperation and compromise revive a relationship
In the end, bringing back a relationship isn’t just about what you want, but about what your partner wants as well. Assuming she was the one who left you, of course. She had a good enough reason to do that, probably. If the reason implies something that you can change, and if that is a worthwhile change for you, then you have no other solution than to make a compromise. You won’t be the first nor the last individual to make a compromise in a relationship.
At the same time, the same thing can be said about your partner. She needs to make compromises as well, to understand your desires and passions – what drives you. A relationship is based on reciprocal cooperation, on common efforts brought together in the same place, and on reciprocal compromises. If one of the partners isn’t capable of or doesn’t want to make a compromise, then the relationship will be broken off eventually.
If the problem is on your part, then it’s your duty to make a change and demonstrate to your partner than things can become better. If it’s your partner’s fault, then you should only tell her how things are. She should realize that she’s the one who has to make a change if she wants the relationship to go back to normal. Both partners have their equal responsibilities.
