DON'T LET YOUR WOMAN DOMINATE YOU
Things you stand to lose if you let your woman dominate you
Besides your own dignity as a man and half a jug of testosterone that’s slowly flowing through your ears? Well, that’s about it. Oh, yes, and the fact that your woman might be fucking your neighbor 3 apartments away, pulling her hair every day you’re out working. The dude’s making her feel dominated and submissive, something you’re clearly not able to do. It’s time to change some things around if, indeed, you’re guilty of this capital sin. There are a couple of things, so read this article carefully.
Let’s start with the beginning – a man should be assertive, dominative, and aggressive (in a constructive way). A man with a strong character and a winner’s personality doesn’t back off from anything, no matter what he faces. That is, except the cases when retreat is the best strategy to come out a winner in a specific situation, because there are many such cases. There are many times when the most intelligent one in the room backs away but that’s only the case when your dignity and honor are not at stake.
The impression you make in society and toward your woman has a great influence on your dignity as a man. You need to maintain it intact or recover it integrally if you lose it somehow. No one will respect you if all you do is act like a worm who everyone can step on. Once you’re confronted with a conflicting situation, don’t back off no matter what. You have many things to lose, many more than you think, and I don’t just mean your dignity, but the respect of others as well.
Impose your will when you have to, if you have to
You need to do this because it’s perfectly natural for a man to take the leadership position and make his own decisions. Evidently, communication is essential in a relatiosnhip, even recommended in most cases. But what happens when the topic of the discussion is inaccessible to her? You need to talk things out, explain as better as possible but the decision is yours to make in the end. Even if she’s countering you, as long as you’re certain of the validity of your reasoning, make the decision already.
Nothing comes for free in life, and that’s also true for romanticism. No woman’s going to ask you out or propose sex simply because you have a 6 pack. Well, maybe they will but that’s not the norm. You need to prove you’re worthy and that you have attractive traits like a strong character and a stable personality in order to impress a woman. Simultaneously, you can’t let a woman dominate you. Your opinion matters just as much as hers, even more so in certain situations.
If she can’t accept it or seems to only care about her own opinions, then she’s either not the right woman for you or you can’t control her. Make sure the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with is a match for you. Ideally, you should have similar life principles, something that ties you both together. Otherwise, things are going to be chaotic and unstable, and the relationship’s going to end faster than it began.
Provide affection in exchange
Just because you have to be authoritarian and to take the initiative in many of life’s situations, it doesn’t mean you also have to be emotionally impassible. You still love her, right? Then act like it and show her every single moment that you care about her – every woman wants a confirmation of your love for her. You’re also human – every man has feelings and he cares about the person besides him. It’s completely normal and recommended to confess these feelings to her.
No woman will stay with a man who can’t learn to appreciate her efforts or who doesn’t know how to please her. She just wants to feel like you’re acknowledging her usefulness and that she can share in your burdens, that you need her just as much as she needs you. If she doesn’t attempt to dominate you, then, as a man, you shouldn’t do that either in a tyrannical and authoritarian way. You’re only provoking unnecessary suffering that way. Communication and understanding are essential to a good and healthy relationship, in other words.
You need to become a better man that all women would love and appreciate. You’re doing it for yourself because you feel the need to self-develop but also because you care about your woman’s opinion of yourself. She’s going to appreciate seeing you push forward for self-development, when you want to become calmer, kinder, and more patient. Surely, not all women are irrational, completely emotional and unreasonable. Therefore, you shouldn’t act like your woman could devolve into that at any given time, and give her the benefit of the doubt.
A relationship built on equivocal efforts
Although everyone has a higher expectation from men when it comes to achieving a relationship’s stability and development, a woman has her role as well. Most of the times and according to societal changes, both partners have equal responsibilities which they have to achieve together. Of course, a man naturally assumes many more responsibilities that a woman naturally abandons tacitly, like taking decisions in a critical situation. In this case, a woman prefers to play second fiddle.
There’s nothing blamable about that because that’s just how the two sexes coexist and act. A man should always want to assume his responsibilities and obligations, to make a stand when life hits him the hardest, and still get up. A winner’s attitude is represented by much more than your refusal to be dominated by your woman. It’s represented by much more than your desire to dominate the situation and to propagate your authority in society. You need to learn how to appreciate other people and how to behave around the people that care about you the most. Your woman is the most important person in your life at that moment.
