COUPLE PERVERSION
There’s no way you didn’t imagine sometimes how sex would be like once you and your partner were happily married. Maybe you’ve already went past that stage, and now you want to experiment more… arousing and exciting things, let’s say.
Well, this is what we’re going to talk about in this article – how exactly you can manifest your perversion in a couple, what principles you should follow so that everything goes on smoothly.
First off, let’s get some things straight. Not just men have these obscene and perverted thoughts, and they aren’t the only ones concocting arousing scenarios in their head. On the contrary, women are just as guilty of this vice, maybe even more so that men.
Furthermore, we all know that couple sex can become boring eventually. The same positions, the same moves, and the pleasure gets less and less intense, everything becoming a routine. So, something must be done in this sense.
As such – we’re finally getting to perversion, to renewing your sexual arsenal, your lovemaking repertoire that you’re always using.
Sex can and should be a pleasing activity through and through, one that shakes your very being with the throes of passion and carnal pleasure.
However, not everyone is open to the same level of perversion or obscenity. Your partner has certain limits that she’d find it hard to overcome. And if you don’t want to destroy your relationship, then you need to follow some ground rules.
Which are:
Anything you think off, share it with your partner
Regardless of how many sexual positions you think off, you first need to talk it out with your partner. This is because you should put aside the bad ideas, the ones she wouldn’t like, but also because you want to test her limits, to see how low she’d stoop.
And if you simply throw an unexpected surprise her way during sex, you might find out that she completely dislikes it. Even more, if you were to initiate anything without letting her know, it might lead to some serious arguments in the end.
As such, whether you’re planning a threesome with the voluptuous 20-year old neighbor who’s been eyeing you every time she gets the chance, or if you want to get into BDSM, you first have to consult with your woman. In the end, we’re talking about couple perversion, not individual one.
Don’t be selfish
This should be simple enough to understand, that you need to think about the needs and pleasures of your partner as well. The ideas that you put into practice should please her as well as you in the same measure.
Putting aside the favors or guilty pleasures that she willingly does for you, any sexual plan or position needs to be approached from a dual perspective. Yours and hers.
Will she be satisfied at the end of it or just tired? In order for couple perversion to work, it needs to be shared with both partners; otherwise it’s just an act of selfishness that can even lead to a break-up.
Read Kamasutra or other sexual guides
It can happen to anyone. You’re completely out of ideas, and yet you want to relive the feeling when you first treated your third member to that sweet and moist pussy. That is, you want to experiment and try some new pleasures that no other bipedal human has ever tried.
Very good, then get your hands on a Kamasutra or one of the other 10.9 billion sexual guides, skim through the pages, and try something that seems intriguing and practicable. Who knows, maybe you’ll find a position or idea that your lover or wife will absolute love.
Sexual innuendos or spicy perversions don’t have to resemble a 500m dash with inhuman panting, sweat, and complete physical exhaustion. Most of the times, such positions can’t be implemented for more than a few minutes because they are excessively difficult to put into practice.
So take it easy and experiment with the novice-level ones.
Don’t underestimate your partner
Like I said in the very beginning, perhaps she’s been thinking that the sex had become monotonous and boring even before you did. She’d want to try something new, yet she doesn’t want to appear too obscene or perverted.
However, things couldn’t be more false. The perception that she exudes on the outside, as with most other women, is just that, a perception. In the bedroom, she’ll be completely unleashed, free from any sort of inhibition or fakery.
So you don’t have to be shy or uncomfortable of proposing a few sexual perversities because, most probably, she’ll be very keen on trying them out. As long as it’s nothing too gross or absurd.
In a couple, it’s much easier to try such ideas and spice up your sexual life because your partner knows you. You have been together for some time, and even if she’s going to frown upon some ideas, she’s still not going to judge you. Too much.
So let your imagination run wild, read some sexual guides about the art of quality sex, go home, and fuck your woman like never before. That is, only after you told her what’s going to happen – which is that you’ll fuck her dead for the whole day.
Last but not least, you need to know when to stop. That is, while fucking, your partner might be uncomfortable or something doesn’t go right. It might be that she’s physically exhausted, seeing as though you most probably ignored my advice and jumped all the way to sexual techniques dedicated to the gods of sex.
Ideally, there should be a safe word that signals when something goes wrong. Perversions and obscenities can be unexpected in some ways, and your partner might change her mind mid-fucking.
As such, when you hear the safe word, stop what you’re doing and check on her. If you see her panting from pleasure and eyeing you like a god of sex, then keep doing what you’ve been doing.
That means you, my friend, will have a happy marriage. Or a happy girlfriend. Either way, you’ve accomplished your goals, having revitalized your sexual couple life, and most importantly, making your woman happy.