CHOKE ME, DADDY!
A bit of rough sex goes a long way
This “Choke me, daddy!” shit is so popular it has become a fucking meme. You know what I am talking about, right? But because it has been so tarnished, people forget where it all started. So, today we are going to talk a bit about rough sex and whether it is a real deal or it is just a marketing tool.
Rough sex refers to anything that causes discomfort during fucking. And by discomfort we refer to both physical and psychological abuse. Which isn’t abuse in the true sense of the word, because the “victim” actually enjoys it and has stepped into the situation on her / his own accord.
And there are a lot of guys and gals that enjoy rough sex on a daily basis, which makes it something we need to talk about.
From rough to rougher
I never understood rough sex. I mean, I get how it works, but I never really understood it. How the fuck are you supposed to enjoy a good fucking, when the chick bites you, or slaps your balls black. This shit is beyond me. But it gets even weirder, because there are some quite bizarre practices out there, where pain is the main ingredient in sex.
And there are various degrees of “derangement” in this regard. Just to explain in detail what I am talking about, here is an approximate list of what you may encounter:
1. Almost there, but not quite
This is the category of people who love verbal abuse. Dirty talking, remember? It is a form of light abuse that just arouses some to the point of orgasm. Remember when you heard your neighbor shouting profanities at his wife in the middle of the day? Now you know.
2. One step further
You know how some debatable prison torture practices relied on dressing men as women? Or undressing them completely, for everyone else’s amusement? It is a way of shaming the prisoner and create a mental torment as a result. It works the same with some sex practices, where both men and women love to be humiliated in bed.
Some women will keep their guys on leashes, literally speaking, whip them, make them call them “Mistress” and so on. It is the same the other way around.
3. Getting into the real deal
This is where the bondage freaks are. People who love physical restrains that create the vague impression of forced sex. There is something appealing in the idea of rape that most won’t even admit. But it has the same effect on women as it does on men. Probably with a plus for women.
4. Beating fest
It goes both sexes, where one of the partners enjoys being beaten the crap out of him / her. We are not talking about mild beating, we are talking about some hardcore slapping, pinching, scratching, biting and so on. You only know you have been through some good sex session when you or your partner get out of it with both eyes black, a scratched back and some bruised face.
5. State of the art torture
This is basically the final stage, where true masochists are. Stepping into this world might leave you with permanent damages. I mean, seriously, this is some fucked up shit going on here. You have tasers being deployed on people in restrains, punching, kicking in the balls until the guy passes the fuck out or dick whipping.
You need to be a tough motherfucker to make it in this world. Or seriously deranged.
People actually enjoy it
You might think that those going through these practices feel an incredible discomfort and they would like everything to stop. And you would be right. Now, here is where the paradox lies - They also like it.
It is all in how the brain works. As you experience pain, your brain begins unleashing dopamine. This is a natural substance that causes you to experience pleasure. It is the same substance that gets products when you eat chocolate or engage in physically or mentally pleasant activities.
The reason why the brain releases dopamine when you are hurt is because it helps you cope with pain a bit better. Even more so, more dopamine is being released the more intense the pain is. This is why people who suffer severe limb amputations during car crashes or whatnot declared that, at those moments, they weren’t experiencing any pain whatsoever.
It doesn’t work for everyone, right?
Wrong. The same effect takes place in everyone’s brain. It is just the intensity that makes the difference. Some people only go to phase one, or would feel comfortable going there, anyway. Others are so daring they reach 2 or 3. And only a minor portion of the population would actually reach 4 or 5.
But everyone does it, more or less. You might not like your woman to beat the shit out of you. But you would definitely like her to be sluttier in bed. You would be amazed to know how many guys love that. Some much so that some even share their women with other dudes. But that’s for another topic.
Bottom line is…I don’t give a shit, man
What matters most is that you enjoy your lifestyle accordingly. It doesn’t matter whether you like being scourged, beaten, tortured or butt-fucked with a thick-ass cucumber. Whatever floats your boat, I guess.
What I really wanted was to highlight how diverse and bizarre the world is. And that, while you make fun of others, others might make fun of you, based on your own particularities. Which is okay, to be honest, because we need to be more open to one another.
So, in other words, go for whatever pleases you the most. And whenever your girl whispers “Choke me, daddy!”, just think that she might be more than meets the eye. And that someday you might find yourself tied to the bed, while she fucks you in the ass with a huge black dildo. Just saying, bro.
