ARE YOU READY FOR A STRAP-ON SEX?

Time for strap-on sex boys and girls

With strap-on sex comes real pleasure. There is no two ways about it. No, I am not talking about being gay. That is an entirely different thing. I am talking about using it in a way that does not necessarily makes you ashamed of who you are. And before talking about how strap-on sex can add a bit of color and flavor to your life, we will look at some misconceptions regarding the actual practice that involves men. I mean, it has to be kinda gay, doesn’t it?

Of course it does. We are talking about a man taking it up his ass and it does not really matter if it is from a woman or another man. I grant that the cases involving getting it from another man are definitely a lot gayer than those where the woman is the center piece. But it does not mean that the same label cannot be attributed to those being fucked by women. Contrary to what you might think, there are a lot of women eager to use such a device on a man’s ass.

I know, it may sound like a shocker. But are there guys who find pleasure in getting it in the brown hole? Of course they are and they are quite a few. For your information, there is one thing that links you to a gay, even if you are not one: the fact that you will inevitably feel pleasure when taking it up the ass. Most heterosexual men don’t like it for other reasons, like the fact that it makes them uncomfortable. Or the fact that they think it takes some of their masculinity away.

No problem there, since they probably have a higher dose of testosterone than others. But, regardless of their reasons, from a biological stance, ass fucking will inevitably feel better to them. And it is all because of the prostate. Not all men would recognize and for good reasons. But the prostate is not going anywhere and the pleasure it offers can be quite something else. That is where the G-spot for guys is.

Your first strap-on sex

Yea, so you have never tried it, but you have heard it is quite good, right? Most of men have no idea how to lay that down to their women. It sounds weird to tell your wife you would like her to fuck you in the ass. Especially when talking about a relationship or a marriage that has been lasting for several years. Not all women will get your point and not all are perverse. Maybe you are stuck with a more conservative one, which means you are pretty much fucked and not in the good way.

But assuming you are not in that situation and your woman actually knows a couple of things about what a good fuck means, it should be the sign that you could try and go for it. For the first phases, try buying her some treats. Like, when you go for anal, go for some oil base lube and not just the condom itself. It will make things that much easier. Then, if all goes well and she is really into anal, buy a dildo. I mean, why not? You could justify it by the fact that you will use it to spice up your relationship. Without mentioning exactly how.

Trust me, it will come to her really easy, completely natural. It will be just a matter of time until she pops the question for you and, obviously, you need to play hard to get. But the real thing you need to keep in mind is this. It will fucking hurt. It will hurt just as much for you as it hurts for her, especially if you have never done it before or if you are doing it after a large break.

But there is nothing that cannot be solved with a bit of courage and several drops of lube. Then there is another aspect that you need to keep in mind. If this is among your first experiences or even the first one, watch out for the finish. It could hit you faster than you realize, because it is something new, your body is not used to it and the prostate orgasms are incredibly powerful.

Even though not all men are looking for one, they are equally strong and intense for each case in particular.

But what will she feel about a new addition to the family?

Yea, many women would just feel skeptical about bringing a dildo into equation. It will just seem weird, because they tend to associate it with those who are lonely, or do not get enough action. It is, in general, a weird addition to a couple’s life. So make sure she is okay with it and only then go buy one.

But other than that, there is nothing inherently bad about getting anal pleasure, as a man. It does not make you gay, because being gay is being born that way. If you are not gay, you can never become one. And anal play is quite a common thing among heterosexuals, despite of what you might think. Also, there is another aspect that I deem worthy of mentioning.

You need to be satisfied with your sex life. If you are not, then frustration will grow and you will not be able to find any fulfillment in your relationship. This is why people cheat on their partners, because others can deliver them something different, that they cannot get elsewhere. So, if you are a fan of anal play, why don’t you go for it? Even talk to your woman in an absolutely straightforward manner.

Tell her what you feel. No shame, because shame will get you nowhere. And then buy a dildo first, just to test the waters. Once accustomed to it, go for some strap-on sex and I will guarantee you will like it. Fag!